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Being An Empath: Are You One? ... Zelana**

  Author:  11097  Category:(ESP) Created:(1/15/2014 11:41:00 AM)
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Hello everyone,

Recently I have been getting very interested in learning about spiritual gifts. Now, this is something that I have been looking into for years and recently there has been a lot of articles and awareness of certain intuitive gifts- we all possess. One of them is empathy. Empathy is the ability to feel compassion, concern, and understanding for someone else. To be able to connect with the feelings, emotions and energy of a person or place. Empathy is an ability that we all have- though it ranges in people based on personality and experiences. When this ability becomes evolved or there is an awareness of this ability you can be described as an Empath. This is someone who consciously can connect and influence the feelings, emotions and energy of a person or place.

Often these people are extremely overwhelmed with stress and emotions because they take in everything around them. Empaths are able to connect with the emotions of an environment and often in places with large crowds of people they become extremely anxious and overwhelmed and seek solitude. This can also overlap into an introverts personality- hence many people who are Empaths have an introverted personality. Like Empaths, introverts draw their energy from within and are quite intuitive observers. But, extroverts can also be Empaths, drawing their energy from the people and places around them. Empaths also have a difficult time identifying their own emotions. Often overcome with different ranges of emotions from other people, an Empath's mood can change very quickly if they are picking up on angry, nervous or fearful energy.

Have you ever walked into a room and felt tension? This is picking up on the energy impression left by the person(s) in the room. We all have this ability yet we cannot see it with our eyes. It's a feeling. And that is what it really all comes down to, feelings and emotions.

We all have an energy field around us, science can show that there is a magnetic force around life. We emit colors based on our feelings and moods and health. Empaths have the ability to often see and feel this energy. Many are aware and many are not aware. Some people go through life being classified as bipolar or manic -depressive when really, not all but some, of these people could possibly be picking up on different energies that influenced their own energy field.

There are different types of Empaths and in some degree, we all possess this spiritual gift. Some Empaths can be healers and bend energy and light. They can remove darkness from another person's energy field. Many of these people are highly psychic. Some Empaths are more nature based and have a great love of nature and being outdoors. They are drawn to water, mountains, forests, the ocean and outer space. They draw energy and messages from nature and the Earth; afterall, Earth is full of life energy and magnetic forces. Other Empaths are clairvoyant and receive messages when asleep. They can astral project and reach people on a different wavelength. These people have dreams that can come true or premonitions. They are in touch with their subconscious which provides as an open channel for them to receive messages from the energy we are all connected to. Other Empaths possess other spiritual gifts such as telepathy and being a medium.  And some, have closed off their minds to this ability and can possess a very cold exterior because they do not understand nor want this gift, and can appear cold and bitter; but never judge a book by it's cover- they are extremely sensitive as well. 

 

Here is a small list of traits of an Empath:

 

  • Knowing- Empaths know things about other people, they 'just know' and receive messages or have 'feelings' that are almost always accurate
  • Feel the emotions of other people
  • Know when someone is not being honest- you cannot lie to an Empath
  • Pick up physical symptoms of other people- for example: if someone close to an Empath is experiencing pain or an illness the Empath will start to exhibit the same symptoms, this is know as sympathy pains
  • The Empath is drawn to the underdog- anyone considered meek, weak, bullied or suffering the Empath will be immediately drawn to you, they will want to help you
  • The Empath is often the counselor of friends and family- even strangers will tell you their problems 
  • Empaths are drawn to healing, Reiki, metaphysical therapies
  • Love nature and animals- can often have a sense of communication with animals
  • Strive for the truth
  • Have a longing or calling, but often don't know what their "mission" is here
  • Always looking for knowledge and answers
  • They find routine and rules to be like a prison, Empaths must find a way to do things their way
  • Excellent listener
  • Extremely intolerant to Narcissism and other associated traits
  • Ability to feel the days of the week- some days have a light feeling while others have a heavy feeling
  • Love the rain, recharges the Empath
  • Like adventure and freedom
  • Can have lower back and digestive disorders
  • Hates clutter
  • Loves to daydream
  • Has an overwhelming feeling to help others
  • Creative
  • Feeling of not belonging or fitting in with society

 

 

There is a lot more, please feel free to look up the word Empath. There are some tests you can take to see your level and what type of Empath you are, but if you are, you already know. I wrote this for anyone who feels similar to this, for a long time I looked for traits of what an Empath was, without the word being present to me. I think there are many people in this world with this evolved gift. Imagine what we could accomplish if everyone looked after one another?

 

Hope you liked this post and please feel free to leave your own stories, examples or if you think you are an Empath. 

 

<3 Zelana 

How it changed my life:

I am more aware of who I am and where I want to go within my life.

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Date: 1/15/2014 9:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 26203    Hi Zelana, I have known for awhile that I am an Empath, it can be very distressing at times. Thank you so much for such an amazing article.  
Date: 1/16/2014 1:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 37843    I didn't know there was a name for it, but your list fits me, there are 3 or 4 I'd have to say aren't really me, but the rest absolutely. I used to be a cashier at a grocery store and people going thru my line would start telling me all about their lives and problems. I walked into class all the time and could feel the negativity radiating off of three people, they failed out of the program a year ago though so class felt a lot more relaxed after that. Idk how to influence the emotions around me but I would love to learn. Thanks for posting this, it's very interesting.  
Date: 1/16/2014 10:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 53128    Great post, Zelana! Very interesting read. I don't think I'm an empath, but have empath moments (I guess you could say) at times, but it's interesting to know more!  
Date: 1/17/2014 9:32:00 AM  From Authorid: 66331    Yup, I have been a Empath my whole life. I have known about it for at least half of my life. Sometimes its amazing but other times it gets annoying. Other Empaths will understand that lol. For those that have issues dealing with others emotions you need to learn to put a bubble up. Keep a shield around you, it will help.   
Date: 1/17/2014 8:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 37843    Haven, how do you put up a bubble or shield?  
Date: 1/18/2014 7:32:00 AM  From Authorid: 66331    You have to visulize it, its not easy at first but after a while it just happens on its own. So just think about having light surround you blocking out all emotions. I have a shield around myself always, I used to have lots of issues when I was in a crowded place like the mall. Now I'm fine when I'm in a crowded place   
Date: 1/20/2014 11:40:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 11097    Hi Koala, thank you for reading! I felt inclined to write this, I feel there is a lot we can all learn from one another, especially when it comes to things like this. The support for this is not as developed as I wish it was, but with more information and awareness I think people with this trait can learn how to protect themselves and use it to help others. It can be very distressing at times, I often have a hard time discerning between my emotions and the energy I am taking on from another person or the environment. I learned this neat trick: take both hands touch your thumb to your middle finger- now interlock them, as to make a chain. You energy will stay within that lock technique and it's a great stress reliever. It protects your energy and aura and takes away anxiety. I will look up the official name for it but it works great!   
Date: 1/20/2014 11:43:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 11097    Hi WP, thanks for reading and glad you enjoyed it. Yes, I felt the same way you did- there is a name for all these traits I have?! Yep. Empath. I worked at a bookstore over the summer and people would come up to me all the time and just start telling me things about their lives, personal things. I would always listen and they appreciated it, maybe they needed to just have someone listen. They say Empaths are great listeners. I think it's interesting you noticed this too. It's as if sub-consciously these people know you care and will listen, that they are "safe" with you. Thanks for sharing and I will be posting more about this   
Date: 1/20/2014 11:46:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 11097    Hi Soul Light, thanks for reading! Like I said, we all have this ability. We all have the ability to have "empath" moments. Just like we all use our intuition from time to time, some more than others. I am glad you enjoyed the read and I like your name and taggie a lot- just had to tell you   
Date: 1/20/2014 11:49:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 11097    Hi Haven, thanks for reading! I have been working on techniques for protection, can you share how to create a bubble or shield? I would love to know- to ward off those negative people, lol. Sometimes I can be around certain people and feel drained or extremely stressed out. Also, do you know what type of Empath you are? Thanks for stopping by!  
Date: 1/21/2014 8:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 66331    I did share how to create a bubble, its all about visulization. For the longest time I couldn't make a bubble, so whenever I was with my best friend she would let me in her bubble, we always went to the mall and I always felt so drained. I finally was able to make my own bubble, over time it just happened for me. When it comes to what type of Empath I am, all of the above lol I'm a healer, a medium, a psychic, my element is Earth so I'm drawn to Trees, one reason I love Maryland. I have experianced just about everything a Empath of any type can experiance.  
Date: 2/22/2014 5:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 17275    I believe I am an empath. I can look at a place even and feel the energy there. On more than one occasion I have felt panic being at a certain place, deep sadness or even utter joy...it really has made me feel like an emotional wreck at times. I definitely pick up on the feeling of others, good and bad. Never new about the bubble, and definitely going to have to try and figure that out! Great post Zelana  
Date: 4/7/2014 7:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 67240    wow. i came to this website because i am trying to find answers about myself & my fiance. this story actually i think really helped me understand who i am more than i did before. i thought something was wrong with me. every trait that you listed i can relate way to much to. i never knew that there was a name for what i was. i knew that there was something but never knew what exactly. i knew it was something different than everyone else made it seem. Ive been made fun of for it, people were calling me a chameleon behind my back, meaning that i change & adapt to my environment that's around me, my "friend" went around saying i was fake too & was the 1 that started calling me it, but she was just jealous because she really was a fake person. she didn't like the attention i get from others. i don't see why people can just be themselves & not be there for each other, if everyone was the world we be such a better place, but i guess rome wasnt built in a day huh? we all have to start somewhere 1 stepping stone at a time... i feel we live in hell until we die & go to heaven.
Date: 8/15/2014 4:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 63737    Excellent work pulling this together. I've had lengthy discussions with my best friend about my being an empath, and several of the things you described here fit to the letter. There are things here that Id never even thought of, but now that you put words to it, it makes sense. Thanks for sharing with us, I know I'll be taking a closer look at how I deal with things and which categories I tend to fall into.  

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