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The "In" Crowd? Or No?

  Author:  20677  Category:(Discussion) Created:(9/25/2001 7:38:00 PM)
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I've never really been friends with the popular group. I've always had my own group of friends, like I do now. Recently I've gotten to know a certin person alot better, and she wants me to hang out with her and her friends this weekend. She says she likes me, and she asked why I hang out with the people I do. I really want to go, but I don't know if I should. Would I be considered a trader to my friends if I do? Should I just stay with my little group? I really don't know what to do here..What do you think I should do?

Casper

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Date: 9/25/2001 7:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 35853    I was always in the "in crowd" but I was friends with everyone ay High School and College. Have a nice day!  
Date: 9/25/2001 7:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 42898    Just be friends with them both.. there is no reason why you cant be... state to both sides you like them both and no your not being a traitor for going off for a day with other people.

-KittenKat
Date: 9/25/2001 7:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 38282    Well i would say, because i have have friends in my group and in the "popular" group, so i would say go with them, but say this won't change the relationship you have with your other friends. I had my group and the same thing happened to me, so guess who my friend hangs out with now!! Oh, yah she hangs out with us, not the popular group!!! *luv&huggies* ~~~  
Date: 9/25/2001 7:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 20956    ofcourse you can hang out with your new friend, just make sure that you dont ditch your old ones!!  
Date: 9/25/2001 7:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 4614    You should go rent the movie 'Can't buy me Love'...  
Date: 9/25/2001 8:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 5301    ...you should meet new people and try new things, but don't forget who your real friends are. Your new friend seems a bit shallow or has a superiority complex. Be yourself and don't change to suit the ideals of others.  
Date: 9/25/2001 8:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 40541    i hang with anyone i like  
Date: 9/25/2001 8:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 7654    Casper, you can never have to many friends...I think alittle variety in life is nice.  
Date: 9/25/2001 9:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 33632    Well, you've gotten some great advice here. I think I would tell both sides that you want to be friends with each of them equally. Let your old freinds know that you are still loyal to them and at the same time let your new friend know that you are loyal to all your friends equally. And there is always give and take in any kind of relationship. So, if your going to hang out with your new friend and her group, she should also hang out with you and your group. That's only fair. Right?  
Date: 9/26/2001 8:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 277    Go ahead and go with her if you want. Just don't drop your other friends. I personally would have told her to go to hell if she asked me why I hang out with the people I do. What kind of question is that? SHe's already judging your friends and that pretty much says she'd expect you to drop them to hang with her.  
Date: 9/26/2001 8:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 14084    dont make such a big deal of it;the more the merrier
M A T
  
Date: 9/26/2001 3:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 30886    I think you should go for it, girl! You're not betraying your buds..if you only hang out with certain people all the time it sort of turns into a clique and those are BAD. Besides, there's always room for new friends. Just don't forget about your old ones. Good luck!
Date: 7/21/2002 10:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 9160    popularity is all point of view. your friends are popular to you. others try to be popular.be with who you are comfortable with. the rest will fall in line.  

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