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| Date: 3/23/2001 1:33:00 AM From Authorid: 28943 Well some times in life people out grow one another and we seem to lose sight of what is good for us, and then one day when someone is unhappy it seems to be the other persons fault well it took two people to come together and usually it takes two people to end it cause of the lack of effort on someones part, and you need to stop thinking that you are not worthy of someone else cause that is not true. The best advice that I can give to you is to find you and to know exactly what it is you want, you and your boyfriend need to communicate with one another and find out from him just exactly what is going on with him and you need to be up front and open about your feelings and then either one or two things either put some effort into the relationship together or go your seperate ways and always remember you cant hold on to someone that doesnt want to be their or with you but you do need to find out because there is a reason why he is treating you this way. |
Date: 3/23/2001 1:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 21834
....doesn't care anymore....not in his priorities...very distant...his actions pose a threat...I don't even know him....heartless and cold. These are your words yet you say you want to marry him. None of those descriptions fit in to a happy marriage. Time to have a good look at both of you rather than the other proportioning blame and getting defensive. Hope you work it all out - Jailbird  |
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Date: 3/23/2001 2:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 17310
maybe you should see a psichiartist & find out whats wrong. Maybe he needs a vacation?  |
Date: 3/23/2001 8:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 31014
if you love somethin let it go if it comes back its yours if it dont it never was  |
Date: 3/23/2001 8:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 30527
I think I can answer all of thse things for you, and help you to keep site of yourself. A post submitted by me a few days ago should help you alot. If you have not already done so, I suggest you read it. It is entitled, "Are You Attractive?", hope that it helps........High Speed  |
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Date: 3/25/2001 2:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 31332
Dont take this from him. Its good in situations like this to think highly of yourself. Say to yourself " I just to good for this guy" or "forget him i could get any guy i want" This guy aint marrin material he aint even datin material from the looks of it. Your number one concern is YOU! You have no character flaw. Its all in your head. That guy is just placin those thoughts in your head to make you feel like he is the only one who can accept you. -kev |
Date: 3/26/2001 4:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I have been through what you are going through.I am still with him,though ,but both of us have changed.I,too have felt like he was distant from me and not caring much and very cold towards me.A lot of time spending QUALITY time with him and talking with him more helped him me out.Now we are laughing all the time and are inseperable.It took a lot of work to make thing change for the better.They were really going downhill for us and I had no love for him anymore,but,now my view on him has changed and I feel a lot more connected with him.I go with him to a lot more places and I smile at him more.My friend emailed me some great advice today,I am going to post what she told me.Be right back.  |
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Date: 3/26/2001 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
This is what she emailed me,"I think what happens in long term relationships is that we start taking each other for granted. Some people see it has "no spark anymore". It's good that you're able to talk with him and that he listens to what you're saying. I'd say the most important skill in a relationship would have to be communication. Many times we think we know a person so well because we've known them so long that we don't allow for any growth. We are always growing - no manner how old we get; no matter how well we may think we know a person - they are always changing. Actually it's a good thing - never a dull moment. Keep him on his toes, girl!" She is right about the communication for sure.Him and I were not communicating at all,and now we are.He is even talking about marriage and kids!!I hope that you two can work things out.It takes time,it will not happen overnight.I believe that you two will be okay .Best Wishes, |
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