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My "feelings" regarding certain issues recently........ TAC

  Author:  600  Category:(Discussion) Created:(3/21/2001 5:17:00 PM)
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Ok. In an attempt to "clarify" my feelings and views, here goes......1).I feel that it is wrong to outright bash or insult anyone. I think there are ways of making good points without becomming insolent or down right degrading. 2). If a post is meant to be humorous, but one takes it as an insult, it would be a good idea to clarify the intent to that person, just as it would be a great idea to ask what was meant by the post that offends. 3). Hugs.... I like to hug my friends, and I like to be hugged by them. I see nothing wrong with hugs. If however a person is intentionally being insolent, degrading, hateful, it seems a bit fight provoking to hug after a comment such as "you or your opinion are down right idiotic". There are those who don't like the affectionate addition in comments, and I will do my best to respect their wishes, but I myself enjoy the hugs as long as they are meant to be affectionate. Not sarcastic. I am posting this simply for anyone that may not understand my thoughts and feelings, and am sorry for those I have bored with this post. There have been people that haven't understood my intentions with my replies, and I hope this clears that up. I have never intentionally tried to hurt anyone's feelings, nor do I intend to. I will however defend myself if it is viewed that I am hypocritical or in some way falsifying my thoughts on here to appease others. I do hope that the calm will be restored to this wonderful site asap, and that everyone can step back and have a little fun once in a while. This is also not meant to offend anyone or pass judgement. I have many friends here and love the FUN posts where all can have a good time. I have read many posts lately about rumors, insults, etc. I say, let them roll off of you. Time and energy used getting upset by them, is time and energy wasted. (big hugs to all my friends.) BTW, there are many with very strong views and I truly respect them for this, as long as they don't stoop to out right bashing of one another. I truly hope that more people will make an effort to express their own opinions without degrading another's.

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Date: 3/21/2001 5:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 9130    nice post, but I can't really comment!   
Date: 3/21/2001 5:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 16128    You, go girlfriend I agree with you 100%!!! I always put hugs on my responses to people that I do like, I try not to attack anyone, and I usually put hugs even if I don't agree with the debate or whatever, so that they know I wasn't trying to be mean. If I am trying to get a strong point across, then no I will not put hugs. I think this post is very well put, and good job ((HUGZ))  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:23:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hiya Dizzy me. Thanks for stopping in and leaving a reply. SAP, big hugs to you my friend. Thank you for your reply.  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 25767    i think u r sooo rite
and i love hugs, not to b perverted or nething, just as friends......*cj* ...*hugz*
  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 18232    My appologies go out to you, thats all I have to say. I do not like going "out in the open" on USM with my personal disagreements with friends like everyone else does on USM, So this is all I will say here and hope that you accept the apology for what its worth. I was wrong and I appolagize.  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:34:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Thank you Valentina. I apologize to you as well for anything that I have said that could have been taken as an insult. I would never intentionally do that to you or anyone else that I have considered to be my friends. As for my going out in the open, it's basically to clear things up to anyone that may have questioned my integrity or truth. *hugs*  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:35:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi there cj. It's great to meet you. *hugs* back to ya.   
Date: 3/21/2001 5:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 16442    This was well stated TAC. : ) I respect your feelings and it would certainly be nice if we would all do the same with each person here. I am guilty of getting angered and saying things hurtful but I usually apologize after I see that I was wrong or judgemental. I agree with what you say but I agree with SAP about putting a hug or smile sometimes when I disagree just to show that I am not trying to be mean. And if I am really 'angered', I will not put any of the 'nice' things on that post. Thank you for your views on all this mess going on and I too hope it soon clears up. : )  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:41:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi Moonpriestess! It's great to see you! I understand fully what you mean. Thank you so much for your comment. I truly enjoy reading your replies and haven't seen too many "mean" comments from you. lol. *hugs*  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 15033    As I like to chant, RESTORE PEACE! RESTORE PEACE! he he! I think you are a beautiful and kind person TAC, always very respectful of others in your comments. Much Love,  
Date: 3/21/2001 5:46:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi Thunderhead. I'm with you 100% *falling into chant* Thank you so much for your comment. You are one that truly is kind hearted and quite intellectual, but have a healthy balance between the two. I feel the exact same way about you my good friend. Love ya! *hugs*  
Date: 3/21/2001 6:01:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    I wanted to add that I do put in a *smile* at the end of my comments at times to "show" that I am smiling. Sometimes in the cyberworld we can come across as being hateful or rude when in reality we are trying to make an attempt at being humorous. <----another of my smiles I like to add for when I am feeling like a lazy typer. lol  
Date: 3/21/2001 6:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I came here for fun!!!! I love having fun!!! but I gotta say I have met some of the most careing peeps here that really do care and help me in many ways. Through my darkest hour they were here for me and I will never forget that!! good post!!! I agree 100% LOL  
Date: 3/21/2001 6:06:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi Moon girl. I'm so glad you've found the compassionate ones and they have helped you. There are many here just like that. There are also a lot who like to have fun. I love the balance. Thank you so much for stopping in.   
Date: 3/21/2001 6:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 16612    Good thing you brought this up, because I am sick of ppl posting things ABOUT other respected USMer's and questioning their accountability.For example, I think it was out of line for whoever to post that debate "Will pixie relinquish her nerfbat?". It just causes conflict.  
Date: 3/21/2001 6:13:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi there Tessek. Thanks for stopping in. I agree that posts "meant" to offend or degrade are wrong. I do think at times they are meant to be humorous but come off as being insulting. That's why we need better communication skills on here at times. It was great to see ya. BTW, I don't think I caught that one. Maybe I need to check it out. *smile* <--yes, a real smile. lol  
Date: 3/21/2001 6:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 9130    TAC, I promise i mean no offense, really i don't, but isn't this just a way people can come and continue talking about the stuff that's been going on? I mean as someone above mentioned the nerfbat thing (NOT my post btw) and it just keeps bringing everything back up... I no I have no room to talk, but i just wanted to say that...   
Date: 3/21/2001 6:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Tessek, I checked it out and I really think that it was meant to be a humorous post. Hi Dizzy, no offense taken. This wasn't meant to bring up the posts again and return to combat. As I stated in the title, these are my feelings alone. I can't speak for anyone else. Also, this is an attempt at restoring the calm by perhaps giving people a different way to look at things rather than taking them in an offensive way. I'm not sure if that makes sense, sometimes I confuse even myself. lol. But really, I'm not attempting to open a forum that will bring back "bad" times. I hope that eventually everyone will learn to communicate with each other and have a good time even during controversy.   
Date: 3/21/2001 6:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    I have to go do some "housewife" duties now, so if anyone replies and I don't answer or acknowledge them, I'm not ignoring you. lol. I'm just gone for a while.   
Date: 3/21/2001 9:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 18103    Wow! Great post sis. I have to say I'd be lost without all of my HUGS from my close friends/family on here.  
Date: 3/21/2001 9:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 600    Hi sis! *hugs* Thanks for stopping in. To the author only, BTW means by the way. Hope this helps. Thanks for stopping in too.   

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