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Date: 2/14/2001 5:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
Never, ever carry on a relationship with someone just because you feel sorry for him. Ironically, I had an old boyfriend call me this afternoon. We chatted about what each other was doing, and some things of the past, then he ask if he could see me. Even though I really cared for him when we were dating, he has no idea some of the things I found out about him after we broke up (at least he didn't say anything about all the newspaper headlines he caused!), and I just said I'm involved with someone even though I'm not. I wasn't up for feeling sorry for him cuz he has fallen so low from the position and status that he once had. (He used to be the CEO of a large hospital in my area, but was fired after 10 years of being head of the hospital) If you really have good feelings for your current boyfriend, then go with that, and be happy. Give up on the idea of the other guy. The Thinker  |
Date: 2/14/2001 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 2183
Really think about it and go with the answer you tell yourself. Sure you can be friends with you ex, you can be friends with anyone, and you can be great friends at that. But if you feel compelled to run out of the house and chase after the other man because you think you may love him, then do it. You gut instinct is probably the best answer.  |
Date: 2/14/2001 5:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 8374
you just have to go to your heart and think who do you love more...or if i were you i would go ahead and find some time alone and just think to yourself without the influence of your boyfriend or the other guy...just think to yourself of who do you love more and i know that you'll make the right decision  good luck to you and i hope all turns out well  |
Date: 2/14/2001 6:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 23610
Hi She White Wolf....I think you answered you own question but don't know it yet. You say that you have feelings for the man you are with now and of the other one (your ex) you don't mention feelings other than sympathy because you think he needs you. Also, why doesn't he have many friends? Is it because he just moved...or does he have problems making friends? I think that you have to think through what is going on in your own mind and your own heart. There isn't a right or a wrong choice here. It depends on what you are searching for. Just try not to hurt either one of these guys and be up front with them and with yourself. Good luck to you. *hugs* -Lady Nyx  |
Date: 2/15/2001 5:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 24673
I agree with all of the above, plus, I think you should just concentrate on other things in your life and give yourself some space. Don't be in a hurry for a relationship, it will come at the right time, probably when you least expect it, did you ever hear the saying, "good things come to those who wait"? We raised three son's and one of them would always worry if he wasn't in a "relationship" and after a few failures, he finally got on with his life, and bingo...his wife and mother of his children came along. Good luck to you. LOLove, bye. boba/garbage  |
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