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Date: 12/25/2024 7:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
Super Evil Genius...Yes, I do often feel alone. But, then again, I've felt that way for as long as I can remember. I sometimes find relief, by getting obsessed with something and following up until I just burn out. Weird, but it seems to help. Even something as mundane as "cleaning," might help actually get your mind off being alone. (Might get your mother off your case, also?) I suffer from what neuropathy, also. I guess I'd call it "chronic neuropathy." I deal with that condition in pretty much the same way I address the loneliness. I walk, and practice stuff like yoga, until I get some degree of relief, or just can't continue. It's amazing, the relationships that we have with cherished pets. When they pass, the sorrow is genuine. As far as general health: I am not a physician, so my advice is only an opinion. (and, you know what "they" say: Everybody's got one.) Keep moving and get into things that you believe might help you. "Slow down / Go down." On friends: They come and go. If you want friends, you need to develop friendships. Sometimes, you end up with good friends, and sometimes, not. Anyway....Merry Christmas and take care of you. Write on.... ![]() |
Date: 12/25/2024 4:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
Howdy S.E.G. In response to your post I understand how you feel at times. I had a cat for about 18 years before she had to be euthanized. I've had many friends from my days in High School that have come and gone .....I graduated in 1977. One of my best friends from that time passed away not too long ago and I was glad that I had the opportunity to visit him a few times before his passing. I won't go into other details but I will say that certain things, times and places tend to make us feel happy, as well as sad. I also agree with Kronk's assessment. It's a matter of motion and motivation. And reach out to those who are friends, as well as those that can become friends. Life is at times like a roller coaster......it has ups and downs, twists and turns but don't forget to enjoy the ride. ![]() |
Date: 12/25/2024 5:03:00 PM From Authorid: 67845 I am so sorry to hear about all the challenges this year Evil Genius. If you ever need to talk, I have some psychology training, keep in mind I am not licensed and not fully trained. I do relate to the hard year, my dad passed away back in June unfortunately and it took us all by surprise because of how sudden it was. We will have to get you a support structure in some way whether it is here or not, it's never fun to handle hard times in life alone. ~Juniper |
Date: 12/27/2024 7:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 55251
I'm so sorry you're going through so much right now. It’s not dumb at all to feel upset. You’ve faced so many challenges, and it’s only natural to feel the weight of it. Losing Tomtom after 16 years must be incredibly painful, and dealing with neuropathy on top of everything sounds overwhelming. Please know you’re not alone, and there are people who care about you, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now. Sending you so much love and strength. You deserve kindness and peace. ![]() |
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