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Date: 6/23/2024 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
I kind of understand where you’re coming from. And no doubt you’re a responsible person that wants to pay the bills and .so forth. As far as the other family member that you mentioned, I would ask you if you are better off during the time that person would not talk to you? If it is not a matter of life or death, then don’t worry. |
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Date: 6/23/2024 6:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
BTW, Ihave an issue with a certain member of USM who resides in Canada and continues to ask me to wire him money through Western Union. |
Date: 6/23/2024 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 63962
The way I look at it, your aunt is usin you. She's playing advantage of your niceness and just assuming you'll order stuff. Usually people that do that are the type that freak and get an attitude when its stopped. I'd say, take the chance of your family not talking to you, and explain kindly and firmly to your aunt what your stance is and how you'd prefer she give you the money first before you order it, or just use her card to do the order. If she freaks, that's on her. If you have a family that is to where they get defensive and pull the silent treatment for you STANDING UP FOR YOUR RIGHTS, then that's a dysfunctional family and I'd rethink maintaining contact with them. At least until you can see you've taught them that it's OK for you to stand up for yourself and not do what you don't wanna do. If they stop talking to you for all time, then so be it.  |
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Date: 6/23/2024 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...I wasn't asking you for money. Pay up now or the photo of you and Santos becomes public.  |
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Date: 6/23/2024 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...First of all, how old is this aunt and have you been kindly to her for a long time? Have her gears slipped a few teeth and she's lost a bit of perspective? Answers to those questions might make for a clearer picture. |
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Date: 6/23/2024 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...I once told Hey Larry I'd buy him his stupid Death Star if he could find one on Amazon. They had a used one on Facebook Marketplace but the seller was one of those "I know what I've got" types and a bit of a dreamer. |
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Date: 6/24/2024 5:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 5940
^^^ YOU are that seller on Facebook Marketplace. |
Date: 6/24/2024 10:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
Redeye007  How's it going? Good to read you. (it's actually good to read anybody)...Anyway..So, does your aunt have access to your Amazon account? If so, does she just order stuff and you have to pay for it? There should be a way to deny her access to your account. Maybe she thinks that you are independently wealthy and can foot the bill for anything and everything? Whatever, yours is not a good situation to be in. I'm about as charitable as the next guy, but you need to ask me, first, rather than assume it's ok to use my money to buy things for yourself. In the words of a very wise person, whose name I just cannot remember: "Sometimes, you just have to be rude." Write on....  |
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Date: 6/24/2024 11:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
We got to get next to "Hey Larry!" kronk---Why? "L.D."---Because Hey Larry is hooked up with "Isabel Dos Santos," that's why! kronk---Isn't she that billionaire chick from Azerbaijan? "L.D."---Yes, sir. That's the one. We'll be set for life! kronk---Wait a minute. How'd you find that out? Who told you? "L.D."---Hekler said he has a picture of Hey Larry, with Santos. kronk---He probably means George. "L.D."---Ugh! That's terrible! What could we get out of that guy? kronk---Adult content. "L.D."---Ugh! |
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Date: 6/24/2024 12:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...Kronk/L.D..."Isabel Dos Santos" and George Santos - same person. Hey Larry met them at the big Cinco de Mustard celebration. |
| Date: 6/24/2024 11:59:00 PM ( Admin-Z ) If you don't put a stop to it Felix she will go on assuming that it is ok to do so...it's up to you my friend.. |
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Date: 6/28/2024 4:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 67522
I hate to say it, but it might be impossible to avoid the aunt getting mad at you. Unfortunately for the aunt, that isn't your problem. Just tell her no. And if she gets upset, tell her you love her, but she should not be taking advantage of you like that. Honestly, she would have no right to be upset with you for telling her no, it is YOUR money that YOU are earning, no one has the right to question you about it or assume you have it. Just cut her off. |
Date: 6/28/2024 5:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 55251
I suspect that this concern illustrates the nature of your relationship with your aunt. The first time you ordered something for her should have been the last time. She stated she would reimburse you and she didn’t. Since you continued to enable this behaviour, it has now been normalized. Unfortunately, you have no control over her response, and it would be a major concern if she became angry. To me, that demonstrates further disrespect towards you and an inability to see how she is taking advantage of you. If you are worried how this will affect your relationship with her – that’s called manipulation. You’ll continue to be exploited by her until you confront it.  |
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