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Date: 9/15/2022 2:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 998
All valid points. It seems odd that the guest list was picked-n-chosen so quirky. But what can you do? It's their wedding and choices.  |
Date: 9/15/2022 4:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 55251
There are certainly some inconsistencies. They can decide who to invite to their wedding, but their choices can also be hurtful. I hope they aren't trying to insult or hurt people, but I feel most would know better. How can you invite somebody and exclude their husband? How can you say "no children" to some, and yet children will be present? Picking and choosing specific family members will inevitably lead to hurt feelings. People will notice. People will talk. People will wonder why. They should have predicted this would happen. So, I'm not sure how close you are to Anthony, but I would likely ask for an explanation. Perhaps there is some misunderstanding. Otherwise, I agree with your mother’s position. I wouldn’t be going either.  |
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Date: 9/15/2022 7:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 5301
...is your cousin financially stressed? This could be a factor in why you and children have not been invited. Are you very close to this cousin or just passing acquaintances? Has he or the bride-to-be decided that they want a smaller wedding? All things you should take into account before you start feeling snubbed.  |
Date: 9/15/2022 7:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55582
Morphix people are already starting to talk. My grandma feels hurt they didn’t invite her son. But Anthony’s dad which is my aunts son said he can go. If that was the case why wasn’t his name on the invite. And as of right now Julie my aunts daughter (my aunt is Anthony’s grandma) still hasn’t gotten her invite. I don’t know if they think the invite for my aunt implies that the son and daughter can go. If that was the case include their name. But it’s all go I’ll plan to do something the day of the wedding.  |
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Date: 9/15/2022 7:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55582
Hekler. Money is not an issue his dad who is helping pay for the wedding just bought a house worth 1 million dollars. |
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Date: 9/16/2022 9:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 5301
...do you have a drinking problem that your cousin may be aware of? Have you possibly thrown up on his fiance's car or in her home? These are factors you must also consider. |
Date: 9/16/2022 5:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
There will always be upsets in families when it comes to wedding invitations...It costs a small fortune over here and to be honest small kids waste their meal that is costly nowadays..I live with my daughter and her hubby now and I got an invitation to an in laws wedding on my hubby's side of the family but not my daughter and hubby..my daughter doesn't care as she said to buy an outfit for the wedding she cannot afford at the moment. I'm still going as I've had more to do with the family..It's not like back in the day when whole families were invited kids and all....it's too expensive.. |
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Date: 9/25/2022 12:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55582
Hekler i don’t know if that was a joke or not but no I don’t have a drinking problem and no I never hung out with my cousin. I just would see him here and there. |
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Date: 9/26/2022 11:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
Wow! A million dollar house! Hey, dog; what would you do with a million dollar house? "L.D."---Sell it. kronk---Yeah, me too. Anyway, back to the "invitation Issue." I think it's cool that your mother stood by you. "L.D."---So true. I can remember many times that I "thought" that I should have been invited, but never got invited. kronk---Were you crushed? "L.D."---Not at all. I managed to get a couple of locks of their hair and a stitch of clothing and constructed a voodoo doll in their likeness. kronk---Really? "L.D."---Yep. Then, I soaked the voodoo doll in EX-LAX and.... kronk---That's enough! We get the picture.  |
Date: 9/26/2022 1:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
Don’t be too hard on Hekler. He’s had too many weddings that he’s been uninvited to for the very reasons that he’s trying to project unto you.  |
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Date: 9/26/2022 2:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...projectile weddings? What are you talking about man? |
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Date: 9/26/2022 2:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...Redeye...okay, we have established that you aren't married to the bottle so maybe the cousin that you never hung out with and "saw here and there" wasn't highly aware of you and didn't know that you weren't Otis the town drunk. Other than that, I can't think of anything else. |
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Date: 9/26/2022 2:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...well, really I can but I am supposed to be on my best behavior. I hope this little exchange doesn't get me kicked off the site or I'm writing a letter ALL ABOUT YOU to your cousin. Do you have an address for this cousin? |
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