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I'm Devastated and Beyond Shocked ... ~Ginger~

  Author:  998  Category:(Memories of ) Created:(12/5/2021 1:08:00 AM)
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The family I'm from is so much like any other. My parents wanted kids, and hoped for 2 girls and 2 boys.

That is just what they were blessed with. Myself who was the first born, then my brother Randy, then Chris and topped off with little sister Ronda.

 Both Mom and Dad passed a few years ago, and have been sorely missed. However we 4 kids, now in our mid 50's through mid 60's have carried on the family traditions and kept the love going strong that we had instilled in us.

 Nothing prepares us for the loss of a sibling. The day after Thanksgiving my oldest brother passed away in his sleep. We will know if it was due to natural causes or Covid in a few days.

If nothing prepares us for the loss of a sibling .... I'm completely devastated to find out today that my other brother passed away 6 days later. His passing has rocked me to my very core. It is a horrifying death that I am completely unable to talk about. When we hear about things like this on the evening news, we cringe and realize how short life can become.

 

I just can't seem to see all this as real yet. It doesn't seem possible ... ... .. .

 

 

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Date: 12/5/2021 3:47:00 AM  From Authorid: 5940    My sincere and deepest condolences.  
Date: 12/5/2021 5:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 21435    Ginger...I'm so sorry to hear that. God bless them, please. Take care of you.  
Date: 12/5/2021 6:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 19772    I'm so sorry Ginger. Losing any family member is terrible but siblings are so much worse because they are the people you grew up with and formed a friendship with, along with family love. I'll keep you and your sister in my thoughts and prayers. ~Big hugs~  
Date: 12/5/2021 7:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 13138    I am so very sorry four your losses Ginger. Many, many (((HUGGGS)))   
Date: 12/5/2021 7:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 54570    I know how you feel. I lost my Bio-father a week before thanksgiving. Thanksgiving day we lost his brother (my uncle) Charlie in his sleep. They both were in latter 60's. Then about 2am Saturday morning another uncles daughter on her way home from work was hit by a drunk driver and we lost her. I talked to my mother about it and we both acknowledged that it seems like relatives (loved and tolerated) pasa around the Holidays. Pretty the older you get then the less the holiday, be it the 4th or Memorial day or even Valentines day) means or you look forwards too. My Uncle Jerry (step-dads side) had a heart attack while taking his wife and favorite Niece out to a Valentines dinner. He was 42. I was at work when I found out. That has scar-ed me. 4th of July. Aunts Bday. Had two cousins killed in a car wreck. Her kids. Drunk Driver. He lived and got out scot free.

Advice: Drive on in life and make it better for you and the ones thats left. Make your mark on their memories. Make it a positive one. Make the younger children remember you for the great person you are. Spend more time with those that is left and try to swallow the differences you had with them. Make them a part of your memories as well. All you can take when you leave this world are your memories and love.

Keep the ones in your memories alive. Tell your memories of them to the younger ones. Get those old photos out and reminisce about those people. Also date the photos and put who's who on them for future people to remember or know who they are. When I was young I would hate some of those stories but they were in my heart by the time I got old enough to appreciate thier value.

I could drone on and on. But I do hate this has happened to you and yours. All I can say is God is with you. My condolences to everybody.

  
Date: 12/5/2021 7:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 54570    Also the passing of my Bio-Father and uncle Charlie and the niece was this year in the last two weeks
  
Date: 12/6/2021 6:23:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 998    Thank you to my friends here for your kind embrace. This has been very hard to process. Even having to tell my daughter that her uncle passed away ... then just a few days later ... tell her again, another uncle has passed. I actually talked with my daughters husband first and told him to hold her tightly, as this was going to be so very hard to deal with.

Smokn Joe, I'm so sorry to hear of all the losses you have had to deal with. Thanks for your thoughts. I will try to remember all the best of my brothers ...
  
Date: 12/6/2021 7:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 16131    Ginge.... since we first communicated (20 years and more ago), I always felt you were a friend. I did not know your sibling who has passed into the unknown saddly. I know if you are any indication. your sibling was a great person and now a great member of the community of heaven. I am so very sorry for your loss. If you ever want a friend to talk things through, do not hesitate to reach bsack out to me and I will help you if I can

  
Date: 12/7/2021 8:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 13969    So sorry Ginger. May you all find peace among this senseless loss.  
Date: 12/8/2021 2:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 48250    So very deeply Sorry for the loss of Your Brothers, dear Ginger....my thoughts and Prayers are with You and Your family at this time...Take/Care >3 >3  
Date: 12/9/2021 10:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 52489    Ginger, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. I lost my mother two months ago.  
Date: 12/9/2021 11:57:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 998    Thank you my friends. I can feel your kindness, and it really helps.

Orion, I'm so saddened to hear of your mother's passing. She raised an incredible person and got to see how amazing you have been. May God bless you with the memories of all the best of her. *Hugs*
  
Date: 12/10/2021 6:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 5301    

Hi Ginger
It's always hard to lose a loved relative or friend but especially so when it is unsuspected.
My best to you and all of your family. Sorry for your loss.

  
Date: 12/13/2021 2:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 67327    I am so sorry for your loss, Ginger. -hugs.- That's horrible. I wish you and your family the best.  
Date: 1/12/2022 9:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 55251    I'm so sorry for your loss Ginger. Take the time you need to be with your loved ones and try to do things that give you even a little sense of peace or calm during these difficult times.  
Date: 1/14/2022 12:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 7440    i am very sorry for your loss,my prayers are with you at this time  

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