doctors,patients and compassion

Doctors are frequently accused of lack of feeling and compassion for their patients. I think I can see things a little from their perspective. I believe a lot of the things we complain about in this field are consequences of our own actions over the last few decades. It has become commonplace for people to sue each other for the simplest of things which in some cases completely destroy the life of the accused. Brings out new laws and workplace behavior. We are no longer allowed to be free and make our own choices and judgements. If my employee does things I do not like I have to have good documented proof to be able to fire that person even though it is my business and my ideas...they say unfair...but what about the unemployed person that will replace the trouble and get things back in harmony...so what is unfair. Now back to doctors....the chances of them being sued by someone is extremely high...they have to be very careful in what they tell their patients...their fellow doctors and are usually under great scrutiny. I am sure there are many very knowledgeable doctors that would love to give their patients better information and less or better drugs but they have to follow the same rules and more ...mind how you behave...what you say...and what you prescribe has to be from the right companies if you want to get your bonuses and or stay in business. So with all these and unmentioned pressures and strict guidelines is it any wonder that the doctor has become distant in truth communication when they risk their license and lively hood by trying to help individuals. They make mistakes like all the rest of us. Is it fair to jump down their throats and try to sue and destroy them for a mistake. Nobody forced you to take the operation or seek a particular medical practitioner... although now in certain places it is compulsory for your child to have chemotherapy and vaccines whether you agree or not. Before going to the doctors or for surgery one should investigate all avenues of your suspected illness....this is your body In the past we were responsible for our own actions and decisions....it appears now we just want someone else to blame for our misfortunes. I have good patience for doctors but that does not mean I trust them or the system...I like to research my problem and gain an understanding then meet with the doctor or surgeon...and if my understanding meets with their superior knowledge on this subject then we can move forward...if not then I reevaluate with the extra thoughts and research more then if we still don't agree I try someone else. A doctor is just someone well trained in a specific field and work to earn money...there are few that continue practicing that actually do it to help people.