Date: 6/8/2016 10:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 25390
I'm sorry your family is going through so much drama, but honestly this sounds like something you should stay out of. While you can be concerned for your cousin, you are only stirring the pot and fueling the fire. She is an adult and must accept responsibility as one.  |
Date: 6/8/2016 1:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Sounds to me like your cousin has been pinning all her hopes and dreams on this man, and he's bad news. But, rather than admitting this, she sees herself as staying loyal to her man, at the expense of her family. This is quite common with this young love.she sees herself as "sacrificing" in the name of love. Any hurt or trouble she causes to others is rationalized as necessary for love. The sad thing is that this pattern of sacrifice and hurt can go on for a long time, and hurt many people before its done. Eventually the family will have to cut her off from your lives to stop the pain. Be ready for this!
This girl is in a downward spiral, but it will be a long time before she realizes it.  |
Date: 6/8/2016 1:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
She only cares about what she wants, not how it affects others. Until she grows up, avoid her.  |
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