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Please help with life....Just advice or prayers plz

  Author:  37150  Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/24/2015 10:40:00 PM)
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Help me, USM! I'm so stressed out! I'm overwhelmed. I want/need to get my Master's but it's such a grind. I'm not having any fun like I should be! Also my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up with me last week! It was a necessary break. I could see it coming. We want different things out of life. So, there's no hard feelings. It's amicable. We're better off as friends.

Needless to say, I fluctuate between okay, the stages of grief, tears, stress, and back to OK, back to spinning out/anxiety/can't get out of my head.

Anyway, thank you for listening. I really tried not to put negative stuff out here. I'm just having such a hard time. I feel like my life is so hard and why does it have to be so hard. I've grown so much and made it this far. I know there are better things ahead for me. I just can't seem to get myself out of this RUT. I feel like I have control, but also that I don't. I've done affirmations, journaling, candles, Tarot. Hang out with friends. Listening to music. I just have to feel it and get through it. The break up I can manage; I know how I feel will pass with time and some personal work. I exercise (hike and yoga). I'll get back into therapy. But, the Master's stuff!!! I HAVEN'T EVEN GOTTEN INTO A PROGRAM YET. It's so much research and work. I know once I'm in The work load and The finances are gonna be way more. I also think, I'm just holding myself back. I CAN DO THIS, so why don't I JUST?

Any advice for getting through this grind? this rut?

Thank you x 1million + Hugs.

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Date: 4/24/2015 11:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 11723    What are you pursuing your Masters degree in?  
Date: 4/25/2015 7:49:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 37150    TESOL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language). So I teach English for English learners/ESL.  
Date: 4/25/2015 7:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 48250    Take it one day at a time----all of it-----one step one day at a time----You can get through it------God never brings us to something without equipping us to get through it------Have Faith, Confidence-----You have came so far as You've mentioned------You've got this too!-----Best Wishes, Prayers-----T/C  
Date: 4/26/2015 3:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 26303    What a commendable Masters degree. We have students who are non English speaking at the moment, and it's very difficult to teach them. Poor kids are in classes, without any real extra help on a daily basis.

I think you are on the right track for lifting your own spirits. You are doing everything that needs to be done. It will happen!
  
Date: 4/26/2015 10:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 26598    I can say you are showing your humanness in feelings that you only heard of but haven't had before. I like to share a story rather than advice because nobody is "you". One day Jesus and his disciples went for a fishing trip,( I wonder what they used for bait?), on the sea of Galilee. There arose a thunderstorm ( the weatherman then had the same accuracy as today) The little fishing boat was battered about by high waves. The disciples were very afraid, ( I am betting a couple were seasick and dumping their lunch), They went to the bow of the sea craft and found Jesus sleeping peacefully. They came and lamented that they are in danger and about to die at sea!. Jesus woke and stood facing the storm, and commanded in a loud voice , Peace, Be Still! You know like a switch was flipped, the rain, dark clouds gave way to the blue sky as the evening light shown through the whiter clouds that sail along the horizon. The disciples marveled and ask how did you do it?( I am not over 3000 years old so, I was not there, and so excuse me for quoting from a book I had read when I was down.) He said have faith and believe and know that God is with you always. I had it explained to me, that when in time of inner storms, I __your name, in the name of God, command my fears, anxieties , and self doubts, Peace Be Still!
God bless your college studies and the wisdom that comes your way.
  
Date: 4/29/2015 7:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    If the masters is not a condition of employment, just let it go for now. Forcing things works sometimes, but not really for me. Best wishes to you, Mayuka. Write on....  
Date: 5/16/2015 3:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    I wish you all the very best Mayuka *hugs*  
Date: 7/9/2015 6:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 67387    Your honesty is respecting that truth.I feel strongly that you are going to be ok...but reserve some time to be yourself without needing to worry about others..how it's done..Focus only on yourself right now as a sacrifice you have to make..you need to focus on you only knowing your not ignoring them or discounting them your focusing upon you and what you need to do now...later you may choose to get back to them...right now you need yourself as your best freind...admit how you feel let them go after..your not being mean your doing that which you must getting your life and education in order so you later on will not now but later will achieve success..stay with yourself feel good about after all you are you..
Date: 7/9/2015 6:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 67387    Focus on your next move not your last one..
Date: 7/12/2015 11:10:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 37150    Thank you all so much. I'm letting it be for now. I think life is hard enough without making it harder, so for now I'm going to continue working since the job I have is great. I'll get my Master's when I'm ready and once I find exactly what I want to get it in.   
Date: 8/3/2015 7:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 36994    Phew! Wow! Stop...breathe. I have to tell you that you are already doing so much for yourself. Do not forget to give yourself credit for that. You do have a lot on your plate. But it doesn't need to be done today! Relax. You have gotten this far and YOU KNOW you will keep going b/c that's what you want. One thing I have learned with anxiety that helps is to stop and do four square breathing. Four seconds of inhaling. Hold breath for four seconds, release in four seconds, hold for four seconds...it sounds tedious but you will find you feel relaxed. We get so overwhelmed with I have to do this, I have to do that!!! But chillax my friend!
When you start feeling this way and feel negative stop and credit yourself for still doing the things you do. Going out with friends, yoga...simple things that you have not stopped from doing. That is a big step. Trust me...I am getting out of a "rut" and I allowed myself to stop everything and I sank further. I forgot to credit myself for how far I have gone. Don't do the same. You are awesome and amazing. Don't forget to look in the mirror and be like yeah! I am proud of what I have accomplished!!!!
  

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