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Woud You Dismiss or Defriend Someone?~Psyguy

  Author:  63026  Category:(Discussion) Created:(6/22/2013 1:45:00 PM)
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So watching all these paranormal shows, I see couples, husbands, and wives, get mad or even leave when their partner claims they are hearing or seeing paranormal events.

They even go as far calling their partner 'crazy' or 'delusional'.

There was one I was watching where the husband even heard the sounds, but dismissed it, and still berated his wife and finally left him and his kid.

I can't believe how they act towards each other, even though the one I was watching last night said "these spirits will try to destroy your marriage and make you fight with your partner."

My question is though would you dismiss or defriend your partner, friend, if they say they heard or saw paranormal events if you didn't see it yourself? Would you go and try to convince them it's all in their minds in a respectable way? Would you tell them if something paranormal happened to you?

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I wouldn't dismiss them cause I think it's rude, I would try to get to the bottom of what they are hearing or seeing. I'd offer to spend the night with them and see it.

I believe in the paranormal, and had my share of it.

Even if the paranormal shows "spice" and "animate" their shows for the audience, I still believe the stories people share on tv.

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Date: 6/22/2013 4:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    If anyone can defriend some one or leave their partner over that kind of business, their friendship or relationship to said partner must have been on shaky grounds in the first place...and it's a good excuse for them to get rid of them..just my opinion though!  
Date: 6/22/2013 4:41:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 63026    I agree to a point. I did see some where they seemed to be shaky. But then there's those who don't believe in the supernatural and won't accept it to the point where they think their partner is causing it.  
Date: 6/22/2013 5:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 64365    no...not for that  
Date: 6/22/2013 8:35:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 63026      
Date: 6/22/2013 10:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 15228    I saw the one you are talking about as well. I think the husband was trying to get to the bottom of it, but it drove his wife crazy she was so scared. But yeah, I've seen the shows where one of the spouses doesn't believe and leaves.

My husband isn't a huge believer in the paranormal, even AFTER he has heard and seen things. Thankfully I have yet to drive him away..LOL
  
Date: 6/23/2013 4:10:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 63026    lol Kelly that's good. There was another paranormal show and the event took place in Chicago, and the husband refused to believe the wife, even though he heard the sounds himself and left his daughter and wife behind. He was a jerk not even taking his wife and child and leaving them her to go crazy and mad.

That one was weird, first you had the 19 year old girl ghost, then you had the ghost of the guy, but he was trying to help the girl to move on, and didn't even focus on the man's ghost.

  
Date: 6/23/2013 8:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 66331    Well I believe in spirits and if my husband saw or heard anything I would be like wow cool....where? However since my husband doesn't believe in spirits it would most likey be the other way around....I dont think he would leave me beacuse of it, he would just think it was something else and not a spirit.  
Date: 6/23/2013 4:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 64365    I agree with Zema...any excuse is a good enough one for the person who wants to bow out on another  
Date: 6/23/2013 5:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 46486    I think it's sad that someone could leave their partner or defriend someone over a situation like this. But I have an open mind when it comes to the paranormal activity in our world. I strongly believe in it.  
Date: 6/24/2013 1:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 12823    Not at all- I would try to be supportive of my husband and would most definitely believe my son. It is frustrating for children to do what they are told to do- go tell an adult- only to not be believed. However, if my husband started doing crazy stuff like Richard Dreyfuss from Close Encounters by building a mountain in our living room lol or started performing blood rituals to communicate with spirits/demons, then I'd probably have to separate for a bit. lol  
Date: 6/24/2013 2:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 52489    I think a lot of that is just drama for the camera lens. On the other hand, paranormal incidents like ghosts or UFO's often upset other people because it implies a reality other than the logical one that we know. For myself, I have experienced a number of unearthly things in my lifetime, so I would first want to hear about their encounter and then examine the situation and the parameters of the event. Is a logical alternative possible? What makes them think it was supernatural? Has anyone else seen the same thing? Has this happened before? Once I have all the facts, then I would draw my own conclusions.  
Date: 6/24/2013 4:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    No, I would not dismiss or unfriend someone just because I did not believe the things they do. All things do not become apparant to all people at the same time Some things never. I am a great skeptic, myself. But, that is just my own opinion. Nothing is impossible, I think. Write on, PsyGuy.....  
Date: 6/24/2013 11:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 28848    I've watched paranormal shows where this caused divorce. It some cases I think that I would have bailed too. Some of the peoples' behavior is just too erratic and unstable.  
Date: 6/25/2013 11:52:00 AM  From Authorid: 21903    I'm with you - I believe in the paranormal, so I don't think I'd judge. I'd like to hear them out to hear what's going on and help if I can or attempt to FIND the person help. If it was my husband I think I'd definitely believe him b/c I"m not sure he is a believer, so if he said something paranormal was going on it probably would have taken him a long time to admit it. I have also seen on shows where the entities sometimes try to destroy marriages, so I'd be afraid of something like that happening - not because my husband or I would really have a reason to doubt the other, but maybe b/c the entity has made one of us doubt the other or taken over one of us or something super creepy like that. If I am in full control of myself, I wouldn't defriend or leave someone, but whose to say I am in full control of myself if it's going on in my own house...I'm glad I'm not the only one who has thought about this before!!   
Date: 6/25/2013 1:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 64819    As skeptical as SmoknJoe is, I'd prolly believe him.  
Date: 7/1/2013 12:52:00 AM  From Authorid: 63121    It would be sad to part ways with someone for reason like that. I could never do that. I'd help them try to figure everything out. They could feel scared or alone/missunderstood already... It would make them feel worse to walk away. I always know that fact can be stranger than fiction, so who knows what can happen, right?  

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