Very lucid repetitive dreams

Before I get into the dream this may be an important part to help you understand where I am coming from. Back in 2010 I met a man at a "party". The entire night he kept his eyes locked with mine and never said a word to me. I guess you could say he was the host of the party. At one point he was speaking and began staring at me in a dazed way and had to shake himself out of it. The night was coming to an end and I was at the top of a short staircase. I saw him across the room speaking to a group with his back to me. And like he knew I was there he turned his head and stared straight into my eyes again. The whole night felt like something out of a silent film. The problem was I was engaged to be married and he knew that.

Every night since then I have had un-willed lucid dreams of him. For a year the dreams consisted of him always showing up when I needed help and then he would tell me he was glad we met and that he loved me. Once he brought me one red rose and the next night I had the same dream that he brought me a pink rose. I would never talk in the dreams. I always just look at him shyly. Then the dreams changed. I would be picked up by strangers in a white van and taken to a carnival where he was throwing another "Party". They would bring me too him. Just before I saw him in waking life again, I dreamed was taken to a funeral home in the white van. He was throwing another party. There was a crowd there when I arrived, and I was escorted straight to him. I told him I couldn't see him anymore and that I was going home now. He got angry and dragged me to a red car. He threw me in and drove off. The next time I saw him again he prowled around me the entire night and kept walking out of the room angrily when I spoke to anyone else. And he had come there in a white van.

I guess what I want help figuring out is are these just average lucid dreams or dream magick or something else. I feel like I would be crazy if the dreams meant nothing and AI took them as a predictive sighn or whatnot.