Parents

I know that I did move in with my parents after I left my ex husband. I mean it was really nice being there. I do love my parents a lot. However, as of lately I am starting to just get ick and tired of their stupid arguments that are so pointless. My mom is an extremely hughsrung person. My dad is mean and says rude comments because he thinks that he is being funny by degrading someone else. I am just sick and tired of this.

Except when I am about to go. My mom will scream and have hissy fits and cry because I'mtaking her grandchildren away. She uses an excuse that my kids need a familar environment. They don't need an environment like this. They are my kids and I have only been home three months. I am going nuts.I feel constant anxiety because I can not stand my prents house. I am leaving as much as possible because I am just sick of the drama. My kids are fine and they hardly see the thing. There in school and daycare. After school I take them to hang out with me.

I haev just had enough and I have decided that I am leaving with my kids. I am not telling my mom when I do this. I know she will have a nervous break down.However I have also decided to not tell my parents where I am living. My old house my mom came over almost every single day and it bothered the hell out of me. I'm just sick of me feeling like the parent trying to take care of two kids.

It's actually pathetic to me. I have changed they can too. I'm just not going to be caught up in this problem of theirs that they keep creating anymore. I don't want any advice nor help fom my mom. She is a huge enablerand control person. I let her in the past because I was so sick and tired of hearing her rant and rave ebcause I did it wrong or she didn't get her way. It is honestly like living with two 12 year olds.

She also kept some paperwork from me showing I got approved for a place. I have not confronted her about this. However, I am moving and I am not involving her whats so ever. I need a break from her.She needs to face her own issues instead of taking care of other people as an escape route for her. To distract her. She is always talking non stop. I don't know if she has a disorder ro not.

However, I am just at the point that I don't care. I am o excited to be away from them and on my own. I don't care that I will be dead broke. However, I just need this. I can't live like this anymore this is not a life for me. I don't even want to bring people over here because they get annoying and nosy. I know they mean well. However, I no longer take advice from them because they are nurotic. It drives me crazy.

Should I Just not tell her I am moving and just do it? I have this planned out right now to get it done.