My daughter's first birthday party is coming up next month, and I'm getting ready to send out invites. Because she's so little, it's really more of a get together for the important people in her life than a real party. The fly in the ointment is her godmother's new boyfriend/love of her life.
First of all, he is her older sister's ex-fiance, who recently divorced the woman he cheated on her sister with. Ok, weird. Dueling banjos and all that.
I let it go, because he is 15 years older now, and maybe more mature.
About a month ago we became Facebook friends. And bam, here's the catch. Major racist. I mean MAJOR RACIST.
His pictures are captioned with things like "muslim killer", he constantly posts things about preserving white heritage, and white power, posts things with the "n" word, complaining about illegal immigrants, etc.
Racism, or any bigotry, is completely unacceptable to me. I don't want to be around it, and I don't want it around my daughter. Plus, several people who are being invited are not white, one of whom found out he was an illegal immigrant when he was 18 years old (he is taking steps to become a citizen). I am terrified that something will be said or done to hurt or offend them.
She's my daughter's godmother and I want her to be there, but not if other people will be uncomfortable.
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