Date: 12/29/2012 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
I can't specifically say what "love" truly is...I know it may sound cliche but you know its true love when you experience it. I've thought I was in love until I found my current boyfriend. Just when you think you found your soulmate you realize there is that one person out there for you. Basically you shouldn't have to change or be anyone you don't want to be if you are in love. The person you are in love with will love you for you, only you. As far as other people portraying themselves as being in the best relationship ever...it may be true or it may not be. Some people hide their true sentiments and others don't. You do as your heart and mind both say. Don't rely only on what your heart tells you only...but also what your mind says. Relying on one or the other I think is blind. Realistically though I think it takes experience to know what love truly is and then again...we each may have our own definition on it. I can tell you that love is real.  It is out there....*x-files theme song*  |
Date: 12/30/2012 7:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 27705
I think love is different for everyone. There are days where my love for my husband is passion and intense and other days where I just love him but don't necessarily like him (it's my little thing when he pisses me off "just because I love you doesn't mean I need to like you right now) Neither of us is perfect, we both have our flaws but so does every person on the planet.
I don't think love is necessarily like TV, movies, and books. I am sure there are moments that may feel that way, but this is reality. Your heart and mind know when you are in love and with the right person. If one or both have doubts that's when I would start to question it.
P.S I know a lot of people on facebook who post how wonderful their boyfriend/husband is but i hear totally different things from text message or phone calls. So don't believe everything you see on facebook.  |
Date: 1/3/2013 11:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 66331
Love is different for everyone. Sometimes you have that deep passion and sometimes you wish he would shut up lol Honestly for me its the small things I love, the times he suprises me with roses for no reason....or better yet taco bell  Sometimes you have to ignore what you see in the movies and look at what you really have. Someone that will stand by you no matter what and is willing to take care of you. Yes I would love something so romantic like what you see in movies but thats just not reality. There will be hard times but when you love someone you just know it. I think the only time you try to make it look better then it is is right after a fight when your on your way to a party lol that has happened to me a few times but you both get over it and soon your hugging each other and holding hands. Every couple will fight...its not always perfect, and fighting is really good for you. So dont worry about being perfect. Its when that person stays with you after that fight, and trys to work things out. That is true love. - Haven  |
Date: 1/11/2013 2:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 28071
Not in a relationship, but I think you're right, Cheer. Movies, tv, and mags to a lesser extent overhype things and don't always portray up and downs of any relationship. I think the intense love is there, it's just that it takes more work than what appears in the movies. Hope you're doing well, David/fearfactor.  |
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