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Would You End a Friendship Over Political Differences???

  Author:  49101  Category:(Debate) Created:(12/26/2011 9:32:00 PM)
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I had a most disturbing experience on Facebook this evening.

A girl I've known for about 4 years, removed me from her friends list. When I met MissR a few years ago, she felt that politics was dumb, and voting was pointless. At the time her son was about a year old. She and I had a very pleasant discussion about politics then, and I asked her how she would feel if her son lost his rights, or was drafted one day, because voting was seen as an archaic way of handling government and we just all decided politics was stupid. It was a very productive discussion and I noticed later that she was taking a bit more interest in current affairs. I was so pleased. :)

Lately she's been very involved in Ron Paul. Ok. Good! A candidate she believes in. No skin off my teeth, I don't like him, but I was so happy to see how involved she was, and I thought it was nice that maybe in small way I played a part in her involvement.

But then the other day, I mentioned in a post that I did not agree with Ron Paul. It was MY OWN POST. She had made hundreds of posts about him, I'd read them and moved on. Disagreeing in my own mind but not downplaying her involvement. I was really proud that she'd found something she felt so strongly about, as she used to just be a pot head who didn't care about anything.

But I made one post about not liking ROn Paul and suddenly I am then enemy. She called me ignorant and unAmerican.

Wait a minute! I've been involved in politics since I was 15! And I'm unAmerican?!?!?!? I've served in an elected position, I've participated in protests, I've driven people to polls and worked campaigns for presidential cadidates - AND I'M UNAMERICAN?!?!?!?

What a load of garbage!?!?!? I'm willing to bet the ONLY reason she is with Ron Paul is because she thinks he is going to legalize marjuanna!

UGH! End a 3 year friendship because we don't see eye to eye politically? What a nitwit!

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Date: 12/26/2011 9:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 44960    I nominate Daffy Duck!!   
Date: 12/26/2011 9:46:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Minnie!  
Date: 12/26/2011 10:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 10075    Thats people for you. Its sad she has been like this. If you are really that bothered about her friendship drop her a private message and tell her how dissapointed you are she is behaving this way and can you not put your differences aside. Sounds like she has found something to occupy her mind and to hell with the others. I hope things work out ok in the end. Myself, I wouldnt bother with her again.  
Date: 12/26/2011 10:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 5301    
...first, you have to learn to accept the fact that you really don't have ANY say in the matter as to who is available to vote for. The political parties and big business make those decisions.

The only reason that the vote is still offered is to delude the populace into BELIEVING they have some say in how they will be cheated out of house, home and occupation.

  
Date: 12/27/2011 4:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 4995    Life is too short to end friendships. I understsand how and what you feel though.G.  
Date: 12/27/2011 7:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 4144    she's childish and silly. be glad you found out in 4 years and not in 20!  
Date: 12/27/2011 7:39:00 AM  From Authorid: 19613    It could be worse; she could have been a fan of Rick Perry.  
Date: 12/27/2011 9:03:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    I just don't get it. I totally respected her opinion based on the fact that she'd done her homework and this is what she wanted. I say one little thing and she acts like I'm an anti-American... Jeez! It's the small mindedness of it all. Yes MomaBug, I suppose it is better I learned after 4 years and not 20.  
Date: 12/27/2011 10:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 19092    If I did that...wouldn't have any friends...  
Date: 12/27/2011 11:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 64365    some people just have this way of wanting their opinions and thoughts to be the only important ones, and no one else's counts or matters. Sounds like she's zipped herself pretty tightly with her opinions and if you don't agree you are out of her singleminded loop. I don't discuss politics with anyone. I have my viewpoints and I respect other people's viewpoints. I think it's silly that you aren't allowed to dislike a candidate without losing friends...on the other hand, what kind of friend can be lost so easily?  
Date: 12/27/2011 12:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    LOL just sayin.............. i'm a lot older than you so i've been there and done that and over it! we all have to find these things out the hard way i guess.  
Date: 12/27/2011 3:51:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    I guess the good thing is that we weren't really close bussom pals or anything. She worked for me as a store a ssociate a few years ago, I then hired her to do some work for me when I was doing the freelance paralegal thing, and we sort of stayed in touch over the last few years. I choose my close friends very carefully. I have two. My best friend Sarah is extremely conservsative, and my best friend Jennifer is the total opposite. I fall somewhere in the mid-left. We get along swimingly.
  
Date: 12/27/2011 4:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    my friends and i don't talk politics at all. it's not worth a fight. and some people take things too seriously and personally. it's the same with religion for me.  
Date: 12/27/2011 7:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    My friends and I never discuss politics or religion..and we still have our friendship going after 30+ years...  
Date: 12/27/2011 8:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 64985    Mrs. K...Yeah she was just an aquaintence from her point of view and from your side a friend. That's the big difference right there! What probably happened is she ran out of erb to smoke, and your post set her off onto a rant, and you became her whipping post because you were only her aquaintence on FB, and not truly a real friendin her mind. Just one guys openion. Don't let her spoil yer mood, you have too many real-friends here on USM to worry about her or her openion. A political difference is really a crazy thing to seperate from a friend for,...but was she really? GOD BLESS YOU and have a Happy New Year!...Corolator  
Date: 12/28/2011 8:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 15228    Honestly, there aren't any more obnoxious political supporters than ronbots. He doesn't have a snowballs chance of winning, but they still insist on supporting him to an extreme. He's the republican party version of Dennis Kucinich. Kucinich is as extreme left as Paul is to the extreme right, and neither has a chance winning the mainstream, but their ego's tells them otherwise.  
Date: 12/28/2011 9:27:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Yep, you're right Kelly!  
Date: 1/24/2012 11:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 26598    Everyone is diffeent in some way and nobody agrees 100% of the time any. If they split then the universe will replace them with a new friend.  
Date: 1/26/2012 12:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 65690    It's best not to get involved in religious or political discussions with friends unless they're on the same page as yourself. It's hard to keep a friendship going when one or the other takes a strong position on the other side of one's beliefs. We tend to make friends with people who reflect our own beliefs and values. So maybe it was inevitable that this would happen. This is not always the case, but mostly is. Let her go and don't worry any more about her rejection of your friendship. It is how it is.
Date: 2/1/2012 3:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 26803    I would never disfriend someone over politics. Being a conservative is my choice, and I argue my points when I feel I should.
Sometimes the arguments become heated, but I have never cut a friendship because of it. I will say though that Ron Paul supporters (some) are a different breed. I think it may come from the fact that he is disregarded or downright laughed of by both parties to a degree, as well as the press.
Supporting an "oddball" can make you sensitive I guess. I must say that some of Paul's beliefs are very true and hold water. It is the 20% or so that throws me off.
  
Date: 2/1/2012 3:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 26803    I have to add this. I have had a liberal friend disown me because of my political views. Was a friend for 25 years, and he could not handle the fact that I am not an Obama man.
  
Date: 12/14/2016 9:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 61013    I ended one friendship over this election. It wasn't even about the election in itself, but it pushed it over the edge. She was complaining so much that Clinton lost; I mean she was posting on facebook every 10 minutes about how mad/sad/disappointed she was. I finally got tired of it and I ended up deleting her because it was irritating that all she could do was complain. I have friends who are Clinton supporters, friends who are Trump supporters, and etc and as long as they are respectful there are no problems.  

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