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Date: 11/2/2011 10:35:00 PM From Authorid: 48250 Very well spoken sweet pea T/C |
Date: 11/2/2011 10:37:00 PM From Authorid: 23963 Thank you for these positive words PBD... excellent! |
Date: 11/2/2011 11:54:00 PM From Authorid: 42945 Excellent Daniel...and rated |
Date: 11/3/2011 10:32:00 AM From Authorid: 14314 Great post!!! |
Date: 11/3/2011 12:38:00 PM From Authorid: 998 This is probably the most important and definitely the most profound post you have ever shared with us Pillsbury. Thank you, and I know it will touch those who need it. |
Date: 11/3/2011 3:09:00 PM From Authorid: 64985 Well said Pillsbury. You are 100% right...Corolator |
Date: 11/3/2011 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 27414
Wow! "Sucks some times?" You have NO idea!!! Words of wisdom surely... I'm assuming of course that you've hit rock bottom. That you've lost the one and only person that was special in your life. After 20 years or so, hip to hip together. Especially after spending the last 10 years planning on a long future together. Only to come home and find your lifemate dead. And that's NOT the first time I've hit rock bottom. But it is DEFINITELY the worst! Ok, I'm geting a little surley here. It's just that, after what I've just described, there IS no future. Not when your whole future was the person you were with. At least not when you're my age. With the world becoming what it is, what is left to live for? Our wages, if any, are being cut. And that's only IF you can keep your job. Social Security is a joke, not knowing if we're even going to have it in a month let alone a year. (Oh, and it's NOT an entitlement). Do I have to mention what else is wrong with this world??? What cracks me up is the people that talk about "things to live for". That's fine if you HAVE things to live for. "The people that you'll leave behind". Boy is that selfish. So you're supposed to think about THEM? And to heck with how you feel? When my wife died I thought, "Why did she have to leave? Why did GOD take her from me?" Then I realized how selfish that was. She was never "mine" to begin with. The fact that I wanted her back is so totally selfish on my part. That I wanted to deprive her of Heaven only because of my selfish reasons. To me, telling someone that things will get better is irrational without KNOWING that person and the circumstances that got them to this stage of life. How do you know that, if you weren't in the same position, you wouldn't feel the same? Maybe you've been there, I don't know. I have and still am. I'm so sick of people telling me that "things'll get better". No, they DON'T! You just get numb to the everyday depression. But it doesn't affect your overall outlook on life. There is NO main goal of depression and all the things that go with/or cause it. It just IS! And there's more and more of it everyday. Anyway, just wanted to submit my opinion that not everyone is willing or ABLE to ascend from the pits of depression. But that doesn't mean that we can't exist. Suicide is NOT an option for me. I've been told by some very good psychics, on here and other places, that chances are, I will not see my wife again if I do that. That is the ONLY thing that keeps me from doing it. I've already made arrangements for my future if something else happens. But for me, there is NO other reason that I want to stay here. Thanks for letting me rant... LOL! |
Date: 11/3/2011 4:35:00 PM From Authorid: 39350 This was very nice PDB! Thanks for sharing!! |
Date: 11/4/2011 10:43:00 AM From Authorid: 27403 What a beautiful, generous post, Doughboy! Depression IS a terrible thing! And so often, only the person who is depressed can bring themselves out of it. I am very much a depressive and I often feel it is because I forget to feel grateful for things in my life. When I make a gratitude list, I immediately feel better. Love and Light |
Date: 11/4/2011 12:49:00 PM From Authorid: 15157 |
Date: 11/4/2011 4:22:00 PM From Authorid: 21435 Way to write about it, man. Affects us all sooner or later. Write on..... |
Date: 11/10/2011 6:32:00 AM From Authorid: 65250 Wow, this really touched me. I am going through a rough time now; glad to have run into this post. I really needed it, thank you.-animacordepleno |
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