What would you call this?

I'm new to these forums but my wife suggested this because we have been talking about how this stuff has happened and we want to know what others think. Most of you on here seem like open minded people who can tell me what your opinion is about these happenings.

First of all a little history, I met my wife through a dating site in Nov. of 2009. The night that we started talking I was checking out her myspace pictures and I realized that I had dreamed about her every November, once a year, since I was 13. I never saw a face but I saw the hair color, body type, and heard the voice, etc. I told her that I didn't want to creep her out but she told me it took alot for that to happen and then I went on to tell her that I could visualize her house, specifically her living room where she was sitting. She was a little skeptical but then the weird stuff happened. I described her living room down to the "T". Keep in mind that we lived 2 hours away from each other at the time, there were no pictures of her house on her websites, and we had never met before. Fast forward nine months later and we got married.

Another thing that has happened was that my wife went on a trip to Savannah, Ga the summer before we met with a couple of girl friends. She had a few "experiences" with spirits while there. Before she could say anything else I began telling her everything that had happened to her and her friends that day. When I finished she told me that I explained everything to her just as if I had been there. When I did that (saw the things I saw) it was like a connection that I had with/to her I could close my eyes and see everything she saw as if I was the one looking through her own eyes. I told her exactly where she sat, where her friends sat, and the surroundings down to the car that had passed by when it all happened. I saw the buildings, houses and the graveyard which they where driving by, and even what the spirits looked like; and what they where all doing; as if they where still alive. I then proceeded to tell her how one died, which was by being hung in the graveyard by the oak tree. As the day went on, she wondered if I could tell her what her great grandmother looked like io test me. When I did that, I went on to described her as if I had personally known her; even her voice. When I concentrate, and it gets quiet, can do these things BUT, I cant force them and sometimes I see people that nor my wife nor I even know, but I see them. its often a picture in my head that I see, and other times it's as if I picture them as they where when they were alive sometimes. It seems like they are trying to tell me something. All these actions often make me feel drained with a head ache. If anyone finds this legit please contact me, I would like to know what I can do to increase these "visions" in my everyday life. I'm a christian and was wondering if these things are normal for christians to have things like this happen occasionally?

It's intrigued me to learn more and made me wonder about my christian life