About 15 years ago(1996) a few months of my father's passing I had a dream that I remember so vividly and was in color even and have never really forgotten it.
In my dream at the beginning dust was being stirred up between Mom and me,the tranquility disrupted and peace threated for some reason unknown. Mom had started acting very snippy and argumentive with. It started a women,a supposed lady friend I never seen before but knew her in my dream,I remember she looked in her 30's-40's toned figure with attractive feline-ish features and mid-back length brown hair in a simple tie back.
I would see her frequent visits with my mom,Mom looked comfortable with the visits being that she warms up easier to simple people than flashy "fronty" ones and finds them more admireable. Then I noticed Mom started acting up,which seemed to cause friction between us over silly things that didn't make sense,naturally leaving me disconsorted and confused trying to figure why so much problems all of a sudden. Mom seemed to get worst especially after whenever this friend visited as it seemed. Then I noticed a few instances or maybe they were visions (you can be kinda psychic in a dream too)I saw of this lady friend muttering in Mom's ear probably after Mom bawling her troubles to her. And noticed the spats got worse each time afterwards,but it didn't occur to me that I was being underminded and Mom was being "poisoned" against me with ill advice.
Anyway,then I saw myself coming home from work one day and found Mom had packed and left me by myself,I felt my heart shatter,like that was all I needed to happen! Then the I found myself speaking to my aunt/godmother Mom's older sister who came looking for Mom(considering she lives almost 1000 mi.away,dreams can be wierd)and I bawled to her why she wasn't home and what happened. My aunt talked to me and told how everything will be alright lets go find Mom,she said "lets hurry it's getting late" while she consoled me on the way over and how it can all get straightened out.
For some reason she knew where to find Mom. We came to an walled in apartment complex,my aunt said "your mom's here,now we need to hurry",the sun had already set. Then I noticed a flashing ambulance parked on the curve,my heart jumped to my throat "OMG!Mom!" I felt running top speed. When I got there I saw what my aunt meant why we need to go quickly if we want to take care of this with Mom that day. I saw females of all types standing all around-old,young,single,divorced,etc. some even lesbian,I was whispered to(normal in a dream)in my head as it turned out it was an apartment complex for women only (like in "Bosom Buddies" remember?),with where men wern't allowed in after dark type rules etc.,except for security and ofcourse emergency personal,which I thought "Oh?? How abaout that."
I rushed into the apartment made my way past some gawking lady neighbors already inside where Mom was in,into the bedroom and came up to a bed with a women with her back to me(that obviously wasn't Mom)wearing jean shorts and a brown sleeveless shirt-top,longish brown hair simply tied back,with paramedics working around her. I saw a doctor that had come in was about to "stablize her",as she got lifted and rolled over my direction I saw it was that lady friend,she looked at me with a dazed disoriented look,then I saw her other side. Her right side of her face had scrunched in like what a stroke does,her right arm/leg were like neuropathized,again I was "whispered" she was hit with a "spiritual punishment" for what she tried to do.
As I look at her momentarly I felt my shock subside and felt myself turn abit callus as I said inside myself "I should have known you had something to do with this you little WITCH! Well sweetheart,you really got yourself in a fine mess now." She had brought Mom there to her place on purpose as another obsticle against me(considering where it was situated) to further keep me from getting to Mom,which I was able to defy slipping in through the commotion going on. I then turned around and found Mom sitting on a bed in the other corner of the room sulking looking sad and ashamed,her suitcase next to her still unpacked. I was "whispered" that what she saw was horrible and knew just what that meant about her "wonderful friend" how fast it exploded in her face on the heels of her evil accomplishment.
I could sense Mom was feeling like a fool and could just cry for having fallen for such a nasty shananigan. I went up and hugged her and said "Come on Mom lets get out of here and go home" as I picked up her suitcase,she came with me without resistance. I turned to look again at the "friend" and saw she was now eating a club-sub someone had gotten her,"now stablized she needed to eat,to help her recovery as it was already almost well past dinner time" so I was telepathically informed the doctor had said. I noticed she was eating like a dope,eating some of the white wrapper along with it,she was still that messed up, while some of the lady neighbors now stood around her in the bedroom chatting. Then strangely I felt the presence of my then recently deceased Dad. I turned around and there he was! Astonished/amused taking it as a mean joke I was like "Oh,Dad!! You were the one tell the story and narrating!" Poking at my fears like that? That's mean! Dad went-"No,.. That was to let you know that the relationship between you and your mother is far stronger than you think and nothing to do with "apron strings". God will protect,what you two maintain is sacred. Whoa the culprit to ever succeed breaking it so much for even a minute,the repprocussions could be grave!" I guess Dad started helping me out giving me peace of mind by nailing one of my biggest anxieties I always felt threatened by.
I try to remember this dream whenever Mom and me quarral over dumb things. Danny3 I've only told this dream to my mom, her younger sister,an uncle(now deceased),and a lady I used to work with who was of the "HolyRoller" Baptist faith(might now be deceased she had cancer last I heard of her 9yrs.ago).
