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Date: 11/17/2009 6:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 63258
Wow good question. but I think the answer may depend on how well you 2 communicated in the first place. Are you the kind of person to tell her frequently how you felt? If so, then I think it is okay and she is more understanding. If not, she may be a bit more skeptical. If you 2 talked a lot to each other, it should come a lot easier to get your point across. I would be like you though, if my wife and I seperated, I would not leave her alone for very long before trying to patch things up.  |
Date: 11/17/2009 6:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
@}~~ The ball is in her court so to speak. If she doesn't answer right away I would take it off and try to move forward. 4 months seems like enough time to me for her to know if she wants to work on your marriage. I wish you all the best.  |
Date: 11/17/2009 6:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 64747
Ah you poor soul  The only answer I have is that is is never too late, if you still have feeling and know in your heart you really want to save your marraige than I say keep waiting, give her more time. My Mam and Dad were broken up for 2 years then got back together, they waited they just needed a bit of space, all of us kids we're all grown up so they had nothing to keep them in the house so they decided to have a break. I really hope your not waiting to long Irish Lass  |
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Date: 11/17/2009 8:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 62579
As a woman I would appreciate the effort. Most women love romance. To me taking a picture of the wedding ring would be romantic and remind me of the promise I made during the wedding.  |
Date: 11/17/2009 8:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61968
Thanks for the replies everyone, I am hoping that everything does workout...I dont know how much longer I am going to be stationed here before I have to move, and I know if I dont get something going before then, then all will be lost...Your well wishes are really uplifting...  |
Date: 11/17/2009 10:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 2508
well the first thought that comes to my mind is..it takes 2 ppl to want a relationship to work..married or not... i know u hurt but is it worth trying to rush an answer out of her that could be the wrong one..i mean if she said ok just because she felt sorry for u being so hurt..she could fool herself into something she really doesnt want to work at..an yall will have problems all over again. this is what i would do..go rent the movie "fire proof" if you really want the relationship to work..it worked to save my friends from ending their marriage..maybe it can help u! *huggies* good luck  |
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Date: 11/17/2009 10:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 2508
watch the movie!! |
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Date: 11/17/2009 10:12:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61968
Thanks Manda for being there. I might get on later tonight...and Sunshine, I am going to check that movie out. Just read some reviews on it, sounds awesome. Im not trying to pressure her, or make her feel sorry, I just want her to know where I stand and how I am feeling, and that if she wants to try to let me know. I asked her to just be truthful with me, thats all. |
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Date: 11/17/2009 11:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 63026
it's weird cause as I was reading this, im listening to a waylon jennings song called "girl I can tell your trying to work it out"... http://music.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=music.artistalbums&artistid=5611874&albumid=8121468 but there's also songs by Lonestars "Let's Be Us Again" and "Tell Her" about the fading of a relationship.  |
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Date: 11/17/2009 11:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 22275
wait for her to answer before you do anything else. I personally never quit.  |
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Date: 11/17/2009 11:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 22275
Get the book The love dare |
Date: 11/17/2009 11:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 28848
She knows now you you feel. So all you can do is wait for her to respond. I wouldnt push her.  |
Date: 11/17/2009 1:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 5622
When I separated the first time I thought that I was going to die so I understand where you coming from. I would suggest that if she was the one that took the descision to split because she needed some time,she should call you if she wants to be back into your life. MY feeling is that when a person ask you for time its a nice way to tell you that its over. You have to understand that you have to move on and you will find that there are thousands of females that would do anything to be with you for the qualities that you have as a person.Dont lose your hopes for happines,remember that when one door close hundreds of them open for you. I hope that you find yours.Dont rush her, maybe its for your best.If she is not clear with her feelings then you can not force her to love you and its always better to know things on time..  |
Date: 11/17/2009 1:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Realistically, there isn't much more that you can do. You've made an attempt at reconciliation. If she is interested, she'll let you know. If she's not interested perhaps it's time to move on with your life. That would mean, hire a lawyer and file for divorce.  |
Date: 11/17/2009 7:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 33401
Wait, but don't wait for ever. You've done your part, and she has the next move. Be patient, but like I said don't wait forever. Much Love,  |
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Date: 11/17/2009 7:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61968
Thanks guys for the support and the suggestions, all are very good. I am going to try to find that book the love dare as well as the movie fireproof. Again, thanks to all, much love... |
Date: 11/17/2009 10:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
The ball is in her court right now.  |
Date: 12/15/2009 1:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 63400
a marriage never ends for various reasons .it ends for specific and exact singular reasons here.i dont know the details remember your not supposed to protect her feelings if your only protecting your own. be calm relax wait and think it through. your emotions will rule be careful. if you really love her, let her love her too.she needs help and you can help yourself really here. need to really know what the various reasons were to be accurate here.  |
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