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A very PNK update. Get ready, it's a bit shocking.

  Author:  29532  Category:(Discussion) Created:(7/5/2009 7:35:00 PM)
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Yes, well, it's been quite a few months. Not long ago I left my husband of 8 years and moved on and kind of thrust very quickly into a very long relationship.

Shane (my husband) and I are still quite good friends trying to build the trust that has been shattered for years. We have decided it is better for the kids if we go our separate but together ways.

I have known Arick for a little while now, 3 months. But there is not a THING we do not have in common except he is picky about what he eats and I am not :)

We live in his house that is in foreclosure due to his divorce from his wife and we will be moving in a few months. From tehre we will rent somewhere until the bankruptcies (sp?) are cleared enough to buy a new house all over again.

Keep in mind this was no accidental meeting between Arick and I. We both feel it in our souls so far down deep that it was meant to be for us. That nothing can go wrong. Yes we have bad days due to the every day life of 2 families broken and one quickly merging. But at the end of the day, we come home, and just lie in each others arms and talk until it all melts away. And it does. Every day.

Shane is taking it well. Better than ever expected. I still care for him and love him, just not in love and have not been for a LONG LONG time. We fought all thetime and it started to affect the kids and me.

I got mad one night, walked away and needless to say, never went home again. I am there about every day though to see my kids until Shane allows them to come here. But for right now he needs them to cope with the pain I inevitably caused with my leaving. He said he didn't see it comming and I think to myself, My dear....How did you not?

I went from a married mom of 2 boys to now being a girlfriend to a wonderfully amazing man with 2 girls and me with my 2 boys. Yes, PNK now dating with a total of 4 kids. 2 boys ages 6 and 8 mos and 2 girls ages 7 and 1 1/2 years.

This was my first weekend with the girls and they are wonderful! Ashlyn and I made muffins. Well, she did really, I kinda just put em in and took them out of the oven. LOL

So yeah, there it is. You were all gonna find out sooner or later.

I am happy and good god Arick is just more than words could ever describe. He is quite simply put, "the one". And it's going to take me some time to get used to flowers and being called wonderful, amazing, beautiful, perfect and so on, but good god I cannot get enough. He to me is the same as well.

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Date: 7/5/2009 8:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 13119    wow, the way you used to write about your husband I can understand his shock but again that is just from the way you wrote I don't know the whole home life thingy.  
Date: 7/5/2009 8:41:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 29532    Well, as hard as it may be to admit, the way I used to write about him was to try to make myself believe it just one more time.  
Date: 7/5/2009 8:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 51876    I knew something was going on after seeing your profile on myspace.Changes in life are inevitable.Sounds like you are happy together,I wish you many moons of happiness.  
Date: 7/5/2009 8:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 13119    good luck to ya and I hope your children are well  
Date: 7/5/2009 9:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    Well, I wish you good luck! Is Arick pronounced "Eric"? If so, that's cool. My name is Arika, pronounced "Erica." =)  
Date: 7/5/2009 10:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 53558    I wish the both of you the very best of luck...  
Date: 7/5/2009 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 30621      
Date: 7/6/2009  From Authorid: 53052    wow  
Date: 7/6/2009 12:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 14412    Lady I saw this coming more than 2 years ago. You tried to make it work, but man you should have taken my advice I tell ya. Can't wait to meet the new man.  
Date: 7/6/2009 12:20:00 AM  From Authorid: 37150    Wow, well I am very happy for u! thanks for updating us! That's good ur kids' and Arick's kids' ages are so close together!  
Date: 7/6/2009 2:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 1799    I'm so happy for you, PNK. I'm still shocked by the separation, but boy do I understand. Wylie and I have been drifting apart for about a year now, and it just felt like I was going through the motions. Asher has made me feel so amazing, and when I told him how giddy I was, he asked "hasn't a guy made you feel special before?" and I told him that they had, but it had been such a long, long time.

It's nice to see you happy.
  
Date: 7/6/2009 2:26:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    Whew, at least I wasn't "shocked" since you told me much of this on the phone, hehe!!!!

Again, I totally understand where your head is right now, and I am thrilled you are HAPPY!!! I can read it in your words, and I could literally HEAR it in your voice on our last conversation on the phone.!!!!!

I am glad that you and Shane are working it out as Adults and doing the right thing for the boys, that is awesome. I am glad you found someone you are content and happy with.

Mac, you were supposed to call me and tell me this though, *raises eyebrow*, lol. Now, you owe me a call, or give me your # and I can call you since I have free long distance, I think it is time for some "girl" talk, and such and such,

I am sort of "giddy" for you!!!! Although I am also just "giddy" these days for ME too, hehe.

Love you Sweety!!!!!! CALLLLLL ME???
  
Date: 7/6/2009 3:01:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 29532    Yes Rika, it is Eric, just spelled Arick.  
Date: 7/6/2009 4:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 11176    oh my lord wasn't excepting that. But I wish you the best  
Date: 7/6/2009 5:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 15677    blending two familys is hard but can be done with love, understanding an patience. As for u, you have to do what makes u happy. living in a relationship because u feel u have too never works. I wish you the best  
Date: 7/6/2009 6:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 46486    Wow, thats a shock. Good luck.  
Date: 7/6/2009 6:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 21266    Wow I didn't see that one coming. I'm glad you're happy   
Date: 7/6/2009 9:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    Glad things are going your way and may you all continue to be happy.   
Date: 7/6/2009 1:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 28848    Wow Pinky I really didnt expect this. But I wish you the very best.   
Date: 7/6/2009 2:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 36901    Kind of saw this coming. I'm glad you are able to remain friend for the boys' sake. Sounds like you're very happy. I hope everything works out for the best for all of you.   
Date: 7/6/2009 3:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 23731    I am a true believer in everything happens for a reason. sounds like you are really happy.  
Date: 7/6/2009 4:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 13636    I don't mean this in any rude way... but I was wondering how long this would take.

I'm happy for you if you're happy for you.
  
Date: 7/7/2009 8:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 48531    Well it hasnt been easy for me for sure, it was quite fast how it all happened. But now the initial SHOCK is over and some things discussed it is much easier. The kids stay with me most the time, and mackenzie will see them every other weekend, or if we discuss it, she will see them more. Shes been being really good about the kids so far and stopping in and seeing them, to help them transition through this difficult time in their lives. I am deeply saddened by this, but love her very much for being the mother of my children, and for not being the way most people are when they decide to move on. We are WORKING on being friends, although there are deffinetly some big bumbs in the road thats been hard to avoid, but yes, we are making the best of the situation!!! I am kinda sad that some of you left me out of the comments but its ok I understand. Thank you all who repplied not forgetting there are more than one set of parties in this situation!  
Date: 7/7/2009 8:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 13119    maybe you were left out because this is HER post and so out of respect for HER, we commented on HER post. If you wish to be acknowledged write a post.  
Date: 7/7/2009 11:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 48531    naa she told me to come here  
Date: 7/7/2009 1:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 13119    I am kinda sad that some of you left me out of the comments but its ok I understand. Thank you all who repplied not forgetting there are more than one set of parties in this situation! --- sounds kinda like a pity post sorry but that is how it seems. be gracious in coming to her post and allow it to be about her.  
Date: 7/7/2009 1:07:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 29532    Magoo, be nice. I invited him in here to tell his side as I think it is important for him to open up a bit. He still means alot to me and always will. He gave me rwo perfect boys. What more could I ask for from him? We are friends and that is getting better and easier every day. If I knew it could be this good as it is now, heck, I never would have married him! LOL  
Date: 7/7/2009 2:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 48531    whatever magoo. maybe you should be nice. But it doesnt matter, It does not bother me either way. But this post is about us, no matter who wrote it, and with that my comments are as valid as hers. I just ask for a little respect from you, not snide remarks!!  
Date: 7/7/2009 2:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 48531    I would have written a story myself "woe is me" if i was looking for pity. So please just stop already!!!  
Date: 7/7/2009 2:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    wow...I wish all involved only the best. stay strong for the boys PR.  
Date: 7/7/2009 5:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 10657    I don't think that comments were made in regards to you Shane because if you read the gist of the post it is about PNK and Arick.
While I can understand how you might be looking for someone to say glad you both are acting like mature adults and working through this time together you must also understand that coming from the average reader this post didn't appear to be saying and don't forget to mention Shane in your well wishes. JMHO
  
Date: 7/7/2009 6:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    Mac I wish both you and Shane all the very best hun, and it's good to see a couple who are mature enough to be able to stay friends, not just for themselves, but for the sake of the two darling little boys that came from that union. *hugs* to the both of you..  
Date: 7/8/2009 4:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    I guess I'm just strange, I will never understand how a mother can walk out on her children, especially as young as yours are. Sure it caused your ex pain when you left but how can you not take your children with you?  
Date: 7/8/2009 4:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    Plus after reading all these comments I can't understand how so many of you that are wishing her luck in her new relationship NEVER thought to ask her WHY she left her babies. Sorry but I think that is so selfish that a person thinks of themselves and not their babies. Sure its nice to be happy and maybe it IS best for the dad to have the kids. Sounds like his head is on straight.  
Date: 7/9/2009 3:27:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 29532    his is as well as mine, FB to tell you the flat out truth as if it really is ANY of your buisness, I did NOT walk out on them, it's just plain and simple. I work ALL week long, so why have my kids in a daycare? Or with a babysitter I don't know? Why not their daddy who I trust? So bug off lol  
Date: 7/9/2009 8:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    I got mad one night, walked away and needless to say, never went home again. I am there about every day though to see my kids until Shane allows them to come here"""
Kind of leads me to believe that its not just day care, but hey if you can live with your conscience who am I to care? Seems like the kids are in GOOD hands with their Father. Sounds to me like he thinks of them first. Good going Shane.
  
Date: 7/9/2009 8:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    Plus if you didn't want it any of anyone bussiness you should not have made a post of it. I really feel for Shane in this with you just going on and on about what a great guy the new boy friend is. And once again if you did NOT walk out on them then why did you say in your post, I GOT MAD ONE NIGHT AND WALKED AWAY AND NEEDLESS TO SAY, NEVER WENT HOME AGAIN. Did you walk away with your babies? And if you did not walk off from those babies then WHY is it up to shane when you can see them and when you can't? I don't know, no its not my concern, so stop making it peoples concern by posting about it. If you don't want anyone to have a different opinion then yours then don't make a post.  

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