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Date: 7/3/2009 10:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
Mmmm sounds to me like you are stressed out way to much, yes, take time for yourself first before moving into any kind of relationship. Everyone needs to think of themselves every now and then, remember, you can't make someone else happy if you are not happy yourself.  |
Date: 7/3/2009 11:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 14754
I agree with Storm Chaser.  |
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Date: 7/3/2009 1:52:00 PM ( Admin )
I think that you can slow down your relationship with minimal impact. Keep it friends and keep talking and getting to know each other. Nothing is going to help you get over someone faster than another person to distract you and keep your mind off the past. You don't have to draw a line and make it a yes or no thing. It maybe perhaps that you don't want to be hurt again so you are trying to stop something before it gets started, undermining yourself. I would explain to her that you really want to get to know her better, talking and stuff. Enjoy your friendship and all that it brings. It doesn't ever have to become more than that, but let the events and feelings drive that when they happen. Try not to predict the future, it will never be what you think it is. -Rad. |
Date: 7/3/2009 2:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 21764
yes, def get to know you before you jump into any big relationship.. seems like you are taking the right steps so far, so keep it up! *big hugs*  |
Date: 7/3/2009 3:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62163
Thanks guys.  |
Date: 7/4/2009 8:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
I used to jump into then it would just be one big ball of stress, learned the hard way over and over again not to jump into a relationship right away. Gotta take it slow, and taking things slow isn't a bad thing because it gives you a very slow, long time to get to know eachother so you know that they are the right person for you.  |
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