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Date: 6/29/2009 10:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
The fact is, in a couple months you'll be in college, you'll form a circle of entirely new friends and you'll completely lose touch with most of these guys.  |
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Date: 6/29/2009 10:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
It's a part of life sadly, people move on and away from us and there's not much we can do except know that we were the best friend we could be to them at the time. A favorite saying of mine is sometimes people come into our lives for a short amount of time and sometimes they come into our lives for a lifetime. When I look back over all my friends I had and lost I want to know the ones that are still standing and holding me up in the end were the lifetime ones.  |
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Date: 6/29/2009 10:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Ignore the both of them hun, you have much more maturity than them it sounds, so don't sweat over them....I know you must be feeling hurt in being ignored, but just think in two months time you won't have to deal with them anymore. I get ignored often hun, I've learnt to let it go over my head...it used to hurt me, but no more darlin!!I now care for the people who care for me...try it out yourself, you'll see how futile it is worrying about those girls..*hugs*  |
Date: 6/29/2009 10:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Mollycat, I know you are right. I just really hate that it's ending like this because we've been so close for so long, and we've had so many good times together. It just really sucks to lose a friendship (that I thought was stronger than this) over something so immature.  |
Date: 6/29/2009 10:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Angi... I hate this part of life then! I hate to lose friends, especially over something so immature and minute in the scheme of things. I like your quote! I definitely thought that these friends were lifetime ones with how close we've become and how much we've been through, but maybe they're just people I needed to help me get through high school? I have no clue, but I'm not liking this at all.  Thank you!  |
Date: 6/29/2009 10:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Zema!  I do feel very hurt over being ignored by my best friends. It's really upsetting. I'm trying to not let it get to me because I do have other good friends, but I can't help it. It hurts that I would be treated like this by people who are so close to me. I'll try my best to not let it effect me though! Thank you! |
Date: 6/29/2009 10:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 8555
I would say that you should just move on, you will meet so many fabulous people in College, you don't need people who will bring you down!  |
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Date: 6/29/2009 11:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 8555
Mexico can make you forget anything! |
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Date: 6/29/2009 11:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you MKL! I'll try. I'm going to Mexico next week so hopefully I can just forget about this! |
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Date: 6/29/2009 11:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
Of course you are feeling hurt. Truth is, you will move on when you get into college. Maybe not at first, but you will be maturing at a greater rate than them. You will start to see things differently. But in the meantime, write to them. Tell them you love them and that you are hurting, but you know you can move on from here. Tell them that you hope to be 'forever' friends, but if not, you understand.... Good luck at college.  |
Date: 6/29/2009 11:10:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
I'm hoping Mexico can make me forget it!  Aussie Girl... I hope college brings new people to me that aren't involved with such immature things. I'm going to try to talk to them when I get back from vacation, maybe then things will have calmed down & they'll be done ignoring me, who knows. It's really upsetting that I have two months left to enjoy of "home" & it's not that enjoyable. Thank you for your advice! |
Date: 6/29/2009 11:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
This happened to me, too, in my senior year of high school. I think it's just easier to deal with the fact that you're graduating/moving on with life by treating you that way. You're right, you don't deserve to be treated that way, unfortunately, it seems your friends (as with most adolescents) they are immature. Honestly, after high school everyone loses touch. If they're treating you this way, they don't deserve you as a friend. From someone who has been there, this is just drama and I'd leave her alone. You're going to college! Be excited, so much more is out there for you. Things'll get better.  |
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Date: 6/29/2009 11:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
P.S. Probably the hardest thing about this situation is realizing that these bonds/close friendships we build can end in an instant over miniscule things and it really feels like the friendship/you never mattered. You matter, but this is a part of growing up and it'll make you stronger. Wait until you get in a relationship with somone, friends become few and far between, but that's okay, the people that matter will always be with you/care for you and you won't have to chase after them. Trust me, there more people and so much in your future awaiting you, these people who seem to mean so much will be a faint memory. I know right now you're hurting and you'll have to go through this yourself regardless of what we tell you because we all go through it. I hope you'll feel better soon and enjoy college and making new friends! Don't let this put you off from making friends with people, just know that if this ever happens again, don't sweat over it. |
Date: 6/29/2009 11:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Mayuka, it's so annoying!  But thank you for your reply! I'm very excited for college, I just wish my last time with them was different before everyone split up, but I guess it's not up to me! Thank you! |
Date: 6/30/2009 5:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 16916
I would let it go...if they really are worth it they will get over themselves. I know they are your friends and it seems now like you don't ever want to stop being friends..I felt the same way when I graduated highschool and I only talk to ONE of my friends that I went to highschool with and she is like my sister. But anyway..you will meet a lot of people in college..probably much more mature..because with friends like these you need no enemies   |
Date: 6/30/2009 6:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
i would stop calling her. i would stop texting her. she is using you for a ride and that's all there is to it. high school friends are not usually life long friends. i have two friends from high school that i still talk to and i don't talk to them all the time.  |
Date: 6/30/2009 6:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 61968
I wouldnt get all upset about it, enjoy your time with your family before you leave...you'll make new friends at college, and all this drama will be beind you...so dont sweat it...  |
Date: 6/30/2009 7:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 21764
i would ignore both of them right back.. they seem like they are being petty and you don't need that in your life right now.. be excited about college and all the new, awesome friend you will make there! *hugs* good to see you around little jung  |
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Date: 6/30/2009 8:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 62766
She’ll get over it. I hate to put it like that, but she will. Don’t feel bad for not driving her. I’m one to believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason. Who is to say that while you two were driving there, you had a car accident and gotten seriously hurt, or even worse. Don’t ever feel bad for a decision you made. I know it might be hard to bring it up in conversation. A lot of people might tell you to “just talk to her”, but if your anything like me, you’ll let the situation ride out, be angry, and try and pick apart every situation afterwards. If you are going to talk to her. More power to ya. Bring it up in a joke if ya have to. If your not going to talk to her about it, then stop feeling as if you did something wrong, wait it out. Maybe try giving yourself some “You time” take yourself to a movie, or maybe just hang out around the house. Things will eventually pan out. Plus you need some You time anyway. You’ll be going to college soon and that’s when the cracking down begins. They might be a little resentful about you leaving. Try to make the best of things, so when you do leave, you are all on good terms. Your going to meet so many different people in college, so suck it up with your close friends now. Enjoy your summer and don’t over think anything. It just may be that they really don’t mean to treat you differently. Good Luck. Let us know what happens  |
Date: 6/30/2009 8:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 62993
Been there, done that. The girl I carpooled with to school from 4th grade to the end of high school doesn't really talk to me anymore. I guess I was never really her friend and she just put up with me. But I've made some new friends in college and you will, too. Just ignore them back. Good luck.  |
Date: 6/30/2009 9:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
I suggest dropping her and her new found best friend like a bad habit. Once you go to college you will move on and meet new people... people who are mature like you. People just don't get it that gas isn't cheap and what about just driving around aimlessly, how about eventually the more you keep drivnig around all over God's green earth will eventually catch up to the car and you'll have car repairs, things that aren't cheap as well. Don't let it bug you. Stop calling them & texting you. IF they were true friends, they will come back to you before you leave for college. But if she comes back to you to have you pick her up and hang out, sounds like she's just using you, and I wouldn't. Good luck chica, things will be better at college, I swear.  |
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Date: 6/30/2009 9:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 20296
it is hard hun. I have parted ways with many friends due to our changing schedules or lives. however, we have never been snotty or rude. I think that your friend is perhaps jealous that you are leaving, maybe a bit hurt as well??? but you are making the effort and she is not. I would try one last time to sit with her in person (go to her house) and make amends and really tell her how hurt you are. if this doesnt work, know that you are a wonderful girl and will soon make some wonderful new friends. wow! I remember when you were just wee little. how is your bro?? again tell mom hi and tell her to message me please. want to check in on her too *hugz*  |
Date: 6/30/2009 1:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
Sadly this is what happens 99% of the time when you graduate high school. Let them go, for you are better then that. I know it hurts when friends do this but take a deep breath and think of what you want for yourself, do you want people like that around you right now? When you get to college you are going to make many new friends and these "friends" you have now you will be wondering what their names are.  |
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Date: 6/30/2009 1:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you A/O! I know this is a part of growing up, but it's really crappy. |
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Date: 6/30/2009 1:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Stina! It's good to see you, I feel like I haven't talked to you in forever! I know this is a part of growing up, but I hate it. I can't wait for college! |
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Date: 6/30/2009 1:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Moma Bug, that's what I'm starting to do. Yesterday she finally texted me back & got all mad at me for asking why she was ignoring me. I guess it's time to let it go. It's sad though. Thank you for your reply! |
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Date: 6/30/2009 1:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you Shadow Tiger! I am enjoying my time with them, and my other friends, but I guess it's just another sign that high school is really over! |
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Date: 6/30/2009 1:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you Bunches O Hunny! I am looking forward to college, and I'm just going to let them do what they want. I'm moving on. |
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Date: 6/30/2009 2:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Independent 4 Ever, that's a good point. I'm still standing by the decision I made & I'm not going to feel bad about it. I tried talking to her about it yesterday, but it didn't work. So maybe I'll try after Mexico, or maybe it'll blow over. I'm not sure, but I'm not going to keep trying just to be ignored. |
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Date: 6/30/2009 2:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you So Sweet Sofia! That's what I'm working on right now! |
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Date: 6/30/2009 2:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
CBlossom! It's good to see you too! I guess she'll move on & I will too since I'm going to college, but it's sad. My brother isn't doing all that great. He has an adorable daughter though! She was born in October! And my mom is great, she just got a new job! |
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Date: 6/30/2009 2:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Thank you Storm Chaser! I'm trying to move on to new friends, but we'll see how this goes |
Date: 7/1/2009 10:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
Wow.. for upperclassmen in high school, your friends sure do act like they're in middle school... seriously, I don't think I've actually gotten mad at a friend and ignored them since probably 7th grade. Your friends are immature.. you'll find new friends in college anyway. =]  |
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Date: 7/1/2009 11:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 23101
Oh my god, I sure do hope so Rika! |
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