Well where do I begin...hmmmmmmm...first off, I've been busy trying to get my stepkids straightened out. Their O.D.D. is getting worse. My stepson was so bad that he took a knife twice to his sister while doing dishes. He comes unglued! He was mean to everyone. At school, home, at his grandma's, you name it. Hitting, kicking, poking, pinching, biting, you name it. He broke things, put holes in my newing painted walls, plus peeled paint off of woodwork. We took him from doctor to doctor. I almost broke up with my fiance because of this kid. I put my foot down and said he was going to have control of me or anyone else! His dad set him up with Iowa City Hospital to be seen. I explained how his behavior was. I even had pictures and video of him acting out. They put him on a med that makes him tired but has calmed him down alot. He isn't mean like he was. His behavior is getting better. We take him back next week so the doctor can up his meds again. He gets immune to the meds he takes after a couple months. Hopefully we got him headed in the right way now.
The second thing is now his oldest sister is acting out! A month ago she brought home a dirty diebetic syringe home. She said one of her classmates gave it to her. Asked her why she had it, because she wanted to know what they looked like. That's a crock. At the same time she stole my EPI PEN syringe and popped that out. I was mad. Asked her why she did it, she wanted to see what it looked like. That's crock, too. Then her dad and I checked her locker at school. I opened it up and found one of her dad's razor blades in there laying on the shelf in plain sight. What is this girl's problem? I finally understood. She was trying to harm herself. So I called our doctor and she took her off her Zoloft. She isn't doing wierd stuff like that now, but she is still stealing from me, stealing junk food from the cupboards, and snacks to her room. She sits in her room early in the morning eating before everyone gets up. I serve these kids 4 meals a day and she still sneaks junk food. Well I stopped buying junk food. She still is getting into the snacks. Her dad and I talked to her the other night and told her she can't keep doing this because of the price of things going up. We hope she finally gets it because we told her we have to pinch our pennies and watch what we spend now.
Thirdly, we are buying a newer house!!! Yipeeeeeee!!!! A BIGGER one with 6 bedrooms!!! Our bank is helping us buy it because this town my fiance is working at wants our family to move there. These people like us. I'm glad to get out of this town finally. We went over the pros and cons about moving and the pros won. Especially for my fiance because he can walk to work or ride his bike then. Save us money. With the price of gas going up and up, it don't pay to drive all that way to work and back. My dad when he passed away left me this house. I will keep it so I can rent it out to help pay for the bigger house. Things are starting to look alot better now. I know we will have to tighten up the money strap to do this for the first 2 years but I know we can do this together. So that's what I've been doing. Packing is also what I have to do now. We won't move in till August 1st, so I have 2 months to pack.
Also I'm asking for praying for my oldest daughter, Heidi aka LadyFluit. Yes, I know after all the mean things she has done to me, why am I asking for prayers for her? Well, she is still my daughter. I still can't forgive her but I have to stand by her at this time. Today her husband ran off with her 3 youngest boys. MY GRANDSON'S!!! Took HER car also! She just moved back after living in Missouri for 2 and a half years. I knew something was going on for her to come home. Her reason for moving away was to get away from family. (ME) But her reason for moving back was to be closer to family. hummm. Something was going on.
Well, 4 months ago she told her husband she wanted a divorce because he was starting to act differantly. He was abusive to her, went behind her back after she told him she didn't want him to be an OTR truckdriver. He did anyways. That job is just to hard on a family. It breaks more people up. My fiance ought to know because he was an OTR trucker for more than 25 years and he seen alot of people split. Plus his family broke up cause of it. Heidi's husband was taking alot of the money out of his paychecks leaving her and the kids with hardly any. He made her quit school to be a Med Aide and also lost her job. She said he wasn't the same person anymore. Now they just moved back 2 weeks ago and he ran off with the boys. He didn't take the boys' medication, no clothes, no diapers, NOTHING! And today was Austin's Birthday Party and he didn't get it. He is all upset now because Heidi heard him crying on the phone for his mommy. All the boys were. Heidi called me crying her eyes out. I just couldn't ignore her. She's still my daughter. Her own father won't. So I'm asking all of my friends here to pray for her to get the boys back and for her not to get abused by him either. Thanks all~ Hugs, Sassy You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or
interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click hereScroll all the way down to read replies.Show all stories by Author:  12862 ( Click here )
Halloween is Right around the corner.. .
|
