Date: 6/4/2008 5:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
Okay, congratulations, but I'm a little confused. You met him only about two weeks ago, but you've talked for a few weeks? Was this someone you met online, then finally met in person?  |
Date: 6/4/2008 5:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I think you should just enjoy what is happening, take it one step at a time and don't rush it!  |
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Date: 6/4/2008 5:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
Oh, sorry...take it slow. Don't appear eager, or he might mistake you for easy...and just may get disinterested. Taking it slow will also help you to really assess your role in this. Are you just lonely, or is this someone you could really hit it off with? Don't forsake his need to chase you. |
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Date: 6/4/2008 5:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
forsake was a poor choice of word...don't discount his need to chase you. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy each moment of whatever this may develope into. |
Date: 6/4/2008 5:23:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
Sorry I am a lil tired  . I met him at a concert, in person, 2 weeksish ago. I left before I gave him my name or number and he ended up finding me on the band's page, thats when we started talking online. So a lil of both (we talked for about an hour at the show). I wasnt lonely at the time, as I had really gotten into a good place with myself so I was scared to ruin it LOL!!! And since I wasnt looking I really wasnt crazy over him...until he won me over. I really like him as a person (from what I know, again I know its early on) and hes sweet. So no its not for lonliness...I think Im more takin by surprise then anyone.  |
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Date: 6/4/2008 5:24:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
LOL thanks Nani. Im not TRYING to rush it or anything...I just wondered if I should feel like I do this fast. And obviously I dont want him to think, "OMG what a loon!" |
Date: 6/4/2008 5:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 57995
It is normal to feel this way in a new relationship. Enjoy it. The feeling will slow down the longer you are together. Don't expect too much and just have fun. It will work out if it is meant to be.  |
Date: 6/4/2008 6:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 22188
I'm with Sapphire Dolphin. It's natural to feel a little giddy at the beginning of a new relationship. As a matter of fact I would think something would be wrong if you WEREN'T feeling like that! I think you've got a good head on your shoulders. You know that you can be excited without believe you're already in love, and I think you'll be just fine whether this new relationship goes anywhere or not  |
Date: 6/4/2008 8:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 12103
This is the first person you said that you've ever felt this way about that they have felt this way back? Nobody can blame you for being excited.....and i dont think there is anything you can do to calm yourself down. You have all these feelings for him and he sounds great and he feels for you as well. Only think I'd be worried about is that your getting yourself wrapped up into something (since you havent known him that long) too soon. But all new relationships are pretty much like this. It's exciting, but make sure your not closing your eyes too much when your on this fun roller coaster, or you'll miss the red flags if there is any.  |
Date: 6/4/2008 8:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
just enjoy it, be yourself and get to know him   |
Date: 6/4/2008 8:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 18155
Just be yourself and trust him to act the same.  |
Date: 6/4/2008 9:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 21764
this is so cute! you are super twitterpated! i love it!  |
Date: 6/4/2008 11:41:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
LOL thanks guys. Twitterpated would be the word! So I can be crazy...as long as I dont wanna have his babies, plan our wedding, or chase away friends that are girls  ? Okay deal. |
Date: 6/4/2008 12:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 4995
My sister met the love of her life online after they talked and met....rare but it CAN happen. Good luck and just take your time..dont appear too eager..I'm happy for you..  |
Date: 6/4/2008 2:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
Sounds like normal run of the mill crush feelings to me however, I would suggest you take it slower and enjoy the realationship as it continues to grow  |
Date: 6/4/2008 4:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 14909
Just chill and be yourself.  |
Date: 6/4/2008 5:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
You don't have to act anyway...just be yourself, and in that he will or should like you for who you are...good luck hun...*hugs*  |
Date: 6/6/2008 10:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 54406
I think it is totally normal to feel and behave this way. It is something new and exciting for you, and considering it has been awhile since you last dated, it is natural you should feel this way. Just don't show it too much because men like the chase; remember that!  |
Date: 6/23/2008 4:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 64637
Be yourself, and if he doesn't like it, then he's not for YOU!!!  |
