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Date: 4/30/2008 12:09:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
Good idea AO. I had a similar approach years ago that really worked well for me. Thanks   |
Date: 4/30/2008 5:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 51876
By knowing you are valuable.Just exsisting for yourself is depressing.I know because I have been through the same thing you have been.It is time to rededicate yourself to greater things.Be a part of bringing life to life.Take joy in those small things.Walk ino a children's hospital see what they go through every day.Accomplish deeds that you can be proud of and never let other's voices stand in the way of your enlightened state.Self loathing does nothing unless a sacrifice is made.You are sacrificing yourself slowly...........prolonged inaction leads to doom....suffering is life,do not be afraid to make mistakes ,win or lose,lessons learned last forever..........The Green Man  |
Date: 4/30/2008 5:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 56369
Sometimes the more we think/talk about doing things, the further we drift away from actually doing them. Everyday is a new day, remember that when you wake up and you will always have tomrrow. A good tip to get the ball rolling is to do everything today which you possibly can, even that which you know will mentally put off until tomorrow. Look up some aristotle/socrates quotes for inspiration.  |
Date: 4/30/2008 6:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 56359
I’ve been through this same thing. I’m now 30 years old… or 29+1… that’s what I like to say anyhow, and I took care of this the hard way. I let it run its course. I finally got so sick and tired of feeling anxiety over ever little thing I did. I mean, there were times when I was younger that I couldn’t even get out of my room due to this feeling of anxiousness. I began to get over it by just putting myself out there, and finding that people actually like who I am. It was so hard, and I still only open up to certain people about myself. I looked to see how old you are in your profile, and your still quite young… just like me… don’t let anymore time pass you by. You’ll regret it… trust me. But please, don’t ever think that you’re ‘insanely stupid’. So get your goals back on track and don’t look back! I know it’s easier said then done, but I’ve been through it. I’ve read your posts here before, and you are a very intelligent and thoughtful person; I know you wouldn’t have a problem.  |
Date: 4/30/2008 6:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
Write it down. Create a list of goals for yourself. Break those goals down into tasks. Then, make a list of tasks you want to get done each day, and check them off as you go. Also, don't procrastinate about making a list, lol. Scheduling and planning is really the key, especially for a procastinator.  |
Date: 4/30/2008 2:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
The best way to deal with procrastination issues is to deal with the issues right away--don't give yourself the chance to delay. Then you feel better for getting the work done fast.  |
Date: 4/30/2008 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 14909
Like the NIKE slogan....JUST DO IT! Sitting there just makes it worse. I found that out the hard way.  |
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Date: 7/25/2008 6:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 57640
Like everyone has said, you need to write it down. I would create a timeline, write down ATTAINABLE goals and when you would like to achieve them. Make a calendar, and stick to it. Kick yourself in the butt, don't allow yourself to do certain things until you have finish what you need to do. I use to have this problem my first year of college because I would always want to go out and party with my friends but I made sure I had done my papers before I had gone out. Once you get back on track the organization and motivation will stay with you, it's just a matter of kicking the procrastination habit first.  |
Date: 7/25/2008 8:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
I'll tell you tomorrow ;o) short of that, check out SARK's "micromovements"... it teaches you to break big/overwhelming things down into small manageable chunks that move you towards your goals. The basic details should be on her website, but there's an entire chapter devoted to them in her book "Make Your Creative Dreams Real".  |
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Date: 7/25/2008 8:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
when we procrastinate, we're actually trying to achieve perfection.... and since we are by nature imperfect, it's a self defeating thing. Just do your best; that's all anyone can expect. |
Date: 7/25/2008 8:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 64123
Recognizing that you have an issue is the first step to dealing with it. I too am a great procrasticater. I found for myself that 'psyching' myself up to something really worked. Like the little motivational msgs you leave on your fridge or your mirror. Telling yourself you're going to go out and do it! Basically, making yourself excited and pumped up to take the steps you need to take. A motivational buddy always helps too. That friend that gives you the kick in the pants and the extra little confidence you need when you start to sit back on your heels a bit. Good luck and remember, you've already made great changes, give yourself a pat on the back for that  |
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