Should I say hi?

Weiiiird question/situation. Years ago when I was a youngin there was a musician I helped out. He was a friend of someone dear to me who I didnt get to see muchs/still dont. This guy SEEMED nice but he had some major jealousy issues with said dear friend. It got to the point where he would start spreading rumors about said friend; rumors I suspect were more about himself then the friend. Some of this being about what I suspect is hidden sexuality I guess I can understand how combined with the frustrated situation they would do that; but Im not sure its excuseable.

I got tired of it. Eventually he quit doing music frequently anyways and I last spoke with him in 2004 as did the dear friend and most people affiliated with him as he eventually moved away and quit music for good.

I on the other hand remained around the same group of people whom I enjoyed and enjoy greatly. I dont think some of them even realize I worked with him as I did not get closer with some of them until after the fact (I wasnt hiding anything I just didnt think to bring it up). With the advent of myspace I eventually did refind him and gave a little hi but that was that. I didnt think much of it until a random moment last summer; and now.

The other day he randomly made himself a music page again; with all the now retro music. It brought back a lot of good memories; but a lot of guilt for thinking about contacting him again after the way he treated my dear friend. Id love to try and contact him a little more thoroughly; but on the other hand I feel bad and think maybe I should just leave it in the past (we both live on way other ends of the country now).

What do you guys think I should do? Thanks!

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