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Date: 2/11/2008 4:15:00 PM From Authorid: 12072 so wait--you have NOTHING in writing? If not, how can she say what's owed and what's not, it's her word against yours...a similiar thing happened to my dad and grandmother--she said he owed her X, nothing in writing, he ended up having to pay only a fraction of what he "owed" her. (probably not worth it since she lost a son, granddaughter, and any great-grandchildren I may have). I'd contact a lawyer, call around, I think many will listen to the problem for free to see if you have a legal situation on your hands, but I'm not sure. GOod luck! |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:29:00 PM From Authorid: 64365 Get receipts if you can, showing that you paid... |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:30:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 15675 But how? Shes the one I paid to...obviously given the situation she wont. But since neither of us have anything in writing (me I paid, she that I owed her anything to begin with) maybe it'll just be laughed outta court? Thanks guys! |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:38:00 PM ( Admin ) You can's stay there with her. So the obvious solution is to move out. Then if she takes it to court address it then. Otherwise this will continue to get worse and worse. |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:45:00 PM From Authorid: 51393 If she only wants one hundred dollars ($100.00) pay it and get out of there as soon as you can.She sound like she has a multiple personalities.I would just wash my hands and move on if i was in that situation.Have it all in writing and tell her to leave you alone.I believed it is all but threats and no actions.Take care (((hugs))) |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:46:00 PM From Authorid: 51393 If you need help paying her and you can't afford i will pay for it myself to shut her up. |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:47:00 PM From Authorid: 64365 YOu have receipts for the gas you had turned on? Any record that you paid the gas bill? Any receipts from the groceries you bought while you were there? Those surely would help to corroborate your side of the story... |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
LOL love you guys! The thing is her whole psychoness took off when I TOLD her I wanted to move March 1st...because I was sick of her (what I think is; I dont know her medical history) bipolar episodes. Thats when everything in the other post happened. Shes trying to control me and she has told me everything I do or say she thinks Im 'battling' her (Im not Im just trying to LIVE.) So to pay her money I really DIDNT owe her isnt something I want to do. I like fairness; and in all fairness I dont owe it to her since she owes me the gas bill. And legally Im almost certain moving out by the 19th I wont owe prorate either since I did have 2 extra weeks. LOL Diana thanks but Im just not letting her win this one. Everytime the cops come out (I called them twice, she called them once when I did just to prove a point) they see me calm cool collected honest and apologetic their there. However she was freaking out and THREATENING ME the first time they were there; and last time (the time she called too) she was STILL freaking out but not as badly. Nani I do. However I dont for the groceries. I know what I did that day was I went to the bank then the grocery store right by it where I had to raise heck cuz I thought I gave him a $20 and he didnt give me $10 back...turned out though I had given him the ONE $10 I had LOL! Maybe they'd remember me? I used to like to do things in credit and debit for this reason but Im still waiting on my check card and so unfortanitly this was a stupid move on my end. However on a good bit of it she doesnt have anything in writing SAYING I owe her anything. According to the cops the most Ive done is establish residency which means I could live there for free less it says else wise. I dunno Im scared to leave my stuff there she keeps going in my room and my books and DVDs and food are all out where she has access anyways. I just try to console myself with if she did anything she'd get arrested but *still* I'll keep you guys updated thanks! |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:56:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 15675 Oh and to shorten a long comment I am looking as hard as I can at other places; I even considered a hostel. There's a place that should be calling me back tonight and they were really cool so Im sure that will go through and I'll be out by Wenesday. Did I mention after today we'll have no lights or electrictity (she turned it off to spite me) or gas (I took it out of my name and she refused to put it in hers)? UGH! |
Date: 2/11/2008 4:59:00 PM From Authorid: 12072 I'm curious what she'll do when you move out--live in cold and darkness? LOL Glad to hear you could be out as soon as Wednesday, keep us posted! |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:01:00 PM From Authorid: 51393 Just becareful and keep us updated.If you need any help let me know and i will be glad to abliged(sp).Much love and God Bless.... |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:24:00 PM From Authorid: 62146 Sorry this had to happen to you Kaja, what advice given is great! but keep us all updated for what happens next, And lets hope it's all good news |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:24:00 PM From Authorid: 28848 She has nothing in Writing saying that you would pay anything. If I were you I would get out quick and not worry about it. |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:54:00 PM From Authorid: 943 Get a couple men friends, grab your things, run, and never look back. The rest will work itself out. |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:57:00 PM From Authorid: 53052 i think you've figured out your biggest mistake about not getting anything in writing.. thats one thing you know you should always do but you think oh we're on good terms i shouldn't need it.. it's surprising things went sour sooo quickly... for the rent... rent usually goes from the 1st to the 31st so i don't think you can pay a half month for jan and a half month for Feb and call it even... but ofcourse you have nothing in writing or atleast that is what my obsessive court TV watching told me... and that because your name isnt on any lease it's considered a month to month rental |
Date: 2/11/2008 5:59:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 15675 LOL Poison Ivy! If only I knew more then 2...Midnightly your probably right. Im just hoping with the lack of writing it'll 'go away'. If not its my word against hers and I know I look and act sane. That is all |
Date: 2/11/2008 6:04:00 PM From Authorid: 10657 You have no reciepts, you have no written contracts. I don't know what there is you can do or her for that matter as it is hearsay I would think. Your bank statement really doesn't prove anything other than that the money was there and you withdrew it. I am not a lawyer but, you can usually call lawyers offices and say you are researching something and they will give you options. At least they do for me lol. |
Date: 2/11/2008 6:09:00 PM From Authorid: 27583 #1 , have the gas shut off before the bill gets outrageuos. #2 move out yesterday.. #3 don't look back. |
Date: 2/11/2008 6:28:00 PM From Authorid: 62849 I don't think anyone has any legal recourse because there is nothing in writing. I'd get out of there and let someone else deal with her. |
Date: 2/12/2008 2:37:00 AM From Authorid: 8024 Very quickly pack your bags ... c |
Date: 2/12/2008 3:35:00 AM From Authorid: 10245 can't really help you with what's already happened, but in the future... write her checks or give her a money order, so you have proof of payment. As far as the gas bill, I'm afraid that since your name is on it, it's your responsibility to make sure it's paid. I'd take care of having that changed over ASAP... make SURE you get it out of your name before you move out or it will haunt you, possibly years down the road. |
Date: 2/12/2008 7:08:00 AM From Authorid: 64549 Wowsers. OK, first ~ anyone can take anyone else to court over anything. I can sue you tomorrow for wearing shoes. Then the judge will throw it out. So, let her have that fantasy. Second ~ suing people isn't free. She'll have to file her claim and that costs money. Third ~ even verbal agreements hold up in court. The judge will decide who is lying and who is telling the truth. Stay consistent and honest and he'll see right through her. Fourth - keep all of the receipts and documentation (check copies, bills, bank statements, etc) that you can. It was a bad idea to pay her in cash, but you did. You can't do it over. You can just learn from it. Sounds like you have learned your lesson (agreements in writing, payments with proof!) Good luck hon! ~AnnieLouWho~ |
Date: 2/12/2008 11:27:00 AM From Authorid: 53284 While your still in the situation write a letter that details what you thought the rental agreement with her was. Then list what you've paid. Print the letter and keep it for your files just in case she decides to sue sometime in the future. |
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