Date: 11/10/2007 2:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 26303
I wouldn't have got his number either. Apart from the chit chat you've just had, you don't know him. But, I would, however, keep going back to that bookstore. And there, I would chat to the guy. Probably a bit more each time. Get to know one another through small talk first. But, hey, that's me. What would I know, I've been married forever. LOL |
Date: 11/10/2007 3:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 61847
I agree with Aussie Girl. I wouldn't have thought to get his number either. I don't think you are broken or anything like that. You seem to be doing everything right as far as I'm concerned. Do you have any friends from work? Sometimes going out with them once or twice a week is helpful. That way you'll meet some other people in your state that you can call when you need to. |
Date: 11/10/2007 7:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 26203
Very Good Advice you have here already, so I really can't add more to it, expect buying more books..lol sorry hugs and good luck |
Date: 11/10/2007 12:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
There are several things I would suggest Obviously the places you go why don't you see if, they have a bookreading night or something or a booksigning. Depending on what type of music you like why don't you see if, they have an amatuer night or something you can find lots of nice guys there. Since you are new in the area now a days, a lot of cities and even towns have a singles night out you might want to see about that too |
Date: 11/10/2007 1:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
Well I kinda see their point as in this bookstore was the size of an average Super Wal Mart (dont know what is the equivlant in Australia ) and given retail standards lord knows if he'll still work there. But good to know I wasnt 'not' forward.
The only problem with music shows is I have learned through time I NEVER get the men I want at them. New town maybe new chances but Im jaded. Also its always a bit of a 'business' thing for me; alone at shows I never have fun. But maybe I'll try next week. Thanks guys! |
Date: 11/10/2007 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
Kaja, I thought the bookstore was a small place, sorry. That's always my image of bookstores. I guess we have a few biggies in the city, but not that big. But who knows, he could be still there. You never know. You will find someone. But what will be more than likely to happen, is someone will find you! |
Date: 11/10/2007 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 63743
We are in the same boat! If you find the asnwer please pass it alone! I still havent figure out what I am doing wrong! |
Date: 11/11/2007 9:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 37101
You want to meet new people without "getting out there?" Good luck with that one. Meeting new people requires a certain element of spontaneity and courage. It's adrenaline rush. Dive off the cliff. You might crash ... but then again, you might fly. - |
Date: 11/11/2007 10:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 62849
To be honest, I really couldn't tell you. I never really had a problem meeting anyone. Be forward with people you want to meet, and if you want to be successful, go for people who are on the same level of attractiveness as you (psychologically, people tend to stick with people who are similar to them, and I can't remember what it is called). Anyway, if you are a 7, go for other 7's. Make sense? It works. |
Date: 11/11/2007 3:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
No Silent Civilian I said OTHER then that advice (i.e. its a given) what can be done. Thanks guys! LOL Beags Im gonna have a bunch of 40 year old friends soon then... |
Date: 11/13/2007 7:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
Well I just normaly just don't think and do it. Then again I am involved with a church of thosands and with long time friends who introduce me to their freinds, from college, work or elsewhere. |
Date: 11/14/2007 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 62849
LOL you look like a 40-year-old? I mean looks-wise. Not personality-wise. People stick with others who are on the same level of attraction as they are. |