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Life Has changed drastically ~~Distraught~~

  Author:  62887  Category:(Discussion) Created:(5/17/2007 4:12:00 PM)
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So hey people. Anyways, just about 2 weeks ago i have seperated from my boyfriend. We were dating for about 4 years. Sadly, we both had a child together. For the last year though, we weren't all that close. I guess the time was right, under all of the circumstances that he had put me through, to go our seperate ways. By saying "put me through," i had to go to court and get an order of protection.

I have been thinking about that relationship and what I could learn from it. One thing is that it was lust and not love. I have realized that a seriouse relationship should not be revolved around the fact that we both like to write poetry and little similarites like that, but if we share the same point of views, the same (or almost) perspective on life.

I have noticed that the "type" of love I was feeling was nothing more than a mere puppy love...

Sorry about the lenght about nothing but i needed to try and straighten some of my thoughts

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Date: 5/17/2007 4:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 63194    We should not assume that someone who is similar to us is a good mate. That is why they say that opposites attract. If you're with someone just like you.. heh, it would get annoying. lol. I wish you luck, and once again as I've said today on another post, step back, then you can step forward.  
Date: 5/17/2007 4:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 22188    It sounds like you've made a good decision in your life. Sometimes it's lonely being single, but in the end you're better off than you would be staying with the wrong person. And don't worry about your child. As the product of seperated parents myself, I know it's way better to be raised by parents who are separated and happy than two parents who stayed together for me and are now miserable because of it. Take some time for you and figure out what it is you WANT to do now that you're not obligated to a partner. Take care of yourself and you child, and happiness will stay with you wherever you go (even if it is sometimes hard to find).  
Date: 5/17/2007 4:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 25183    I went through this with my daughter's father. We were just not meant to be romantically involved. We've been apart for 6 years now, but we are both super active in her life. I finally did meet the person I am suppose to spend the rest of my life with and it feels completley different!  
Date: 5/17/2007 7:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 62383    Youll be okies   
Date: 5/17/2007 8:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 18928    It hurts when relationships end, especially long ones. I wish you the best!  
Date: 5/17/2007 8:59:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62887    the odd part is that it didnt hurt when it ended...i was hrt through the whole relationship...and now i feel free almost  
Date: 5/18/2007 7:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 64414    I know how you feel Distraught. When my first husband and I seperated, I didn't even cry. I had already used up all the tears I had for him. Once you get to that point, it is time to let it go. It sounds like you made a wise decision.  

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