(if this is in the wrong section, please move it (-: ) I think everyone will benefit from reading this post in one way or another.
I want you to think first of the 'annoying' or habitual things you do. Maybe you simply have something happen TO YOU, such as being ignored, failing every relationship you have had with a man/woman. Or a habit such as buying shoes when you feel 'empty'. Maybe you are a perfectionist or just explode when someone says something mildly mean to you, but you go 'full blown' on them....
Think about the things you do or happen to you daily. Maybe you need to go through tomorrow just 'observing' yourself. But after realize there is something to be learned! Something to overcome and realize what you need to get out of why 'this' keeps happening to you.
It's crazy, but for example, if you go shopping every time you feel incomplete - you don't know this yet...just take something you seem to do unconscious, you go shopping, buy something, regret it later, cycles with you again and again. You get nervous/anxious/antisocial so you retreat into a perfectionist/OCD mode....the truly life altering experience is when you stop from doing this unconscious act, and observe your thoughts, ask yourself why you do this EVERY SINGLE TIME _____ HAPPENS.... it can be the most revealing moments of your life.
You always have a 'bickering' conversation with your mother, she feels the same way about you...stop saying anything in the middle of the conversation, and maybe you realize..."I always have to be right, even though I hate these conversations with her...I always have to be right" - in this example you would change your approach and not care if u r right, and say the one thing that stops her in her tracks, you say something like "ok" or "we'll talk about this later" ....
The results of changing how you do any habit or problem in your life such as mentioned above, are VERY INTERESTING AND life changing....see for yourself.
There is something to be learned from every habit and problem in your life. How it changed my life:If this doesn't make sense, TRY IT OUT FIRST! :) You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or
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