Date: 4/2/2007 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 64356
I just see women as objects, something to date and leave and joke about their physical appearance.  |
Date: 4/2/2007 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
some people are social daters... they date to get to know people and meet people... some people are not the type to tie themselves down to one person not ready to settle down.. everyone is different  |
Date: 4/2/2007 5:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 17290
I know that in a few other cultures, you don't date someone unless you are serious about marriage, before that you date in groups as friends...I just thought it was so different/interesting with the differences   |
Date: 4/2/2007 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
First of all, if I were the type to be easily offended, this post would offend me. I'm not though, so I'll go with it. I agree with Maniac, you're just an object... Nothing more.  |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
I make my girlfriends ride in the trunk of my car. that is where I keep most of my objects. |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
Which reminds me, I should probably clean out the trunk of my car - It's getting messy. |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 17290
good luck with a long term relationship! lol |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
I hope you know I am kidding. lol |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
But to be honest, I still see a 50/50 split between guys and gals when it comes to discriminating the opposite sex. |
Date: 4/2/2007 6:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
you are so cruel to even joke like that Ben! Every guy I've dated is what you describe. I am really thinking it's not worth it anymore.  |
Date: 4/2/2007 6:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
I see you are in your early 20's. I think your age has a lot to do with it. Many people are not ready to settle down at your age, and dating really is just a fun way of meeting new people. And I don't see a problem with this. Not every relationship had to be headed towards marriage. Sometimes the joy of it is just in the experience itself, knowing that it isn't going to last long. And at your age, maybe it's more realistic for people not to get into long-term relationships, since so many have other things they need to focus on first before they get into a serious committment. The important thing is that everyone is very clear from the start what their intentions are so nobody gets misled and gets their feelings hurt...unfortunately, this is where many people get tripped up.  |
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Date: 4/2/2007 6:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
Relationship communication skills take a long time to develop. |
Date: 4/2/2007 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 19345
Sorry but I think most men are out for themselves and will lie, or do what ever to get what they want than they are off to the next victim  |
Date: 4/2/2007 6:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 34663
Truthfuly most guys are jerks, it best to wait until they mature which doesn't usualy take place until they are close to thirty some sooner, but even alot of them are jerks also, it's hard to weed through the bad to get to the good but you have plenty of time to find who you are looking for and when you do you'll know it, just have patiants and take your time that is the most important thing, never rush into something without knowing what you are getting into that is how broken marriages happen, best of luck finding your soul mate  |
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Date: 4/2/2007 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
This site is clearly full of some very ignorant people. As far as I can tell, you are all associating yourselves with the wrong people. i am beginning to think i live on a completely different planet than most of you. |
Date: 4/2/2007 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
like Ben would let a woman in his car...  |
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Date: 4/2/2007 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
True, Eddo - There isnt enough room in Hillary Prius... what with all the anti-push bumper stickers I have piled up in there... |
Date: 4/3/2007 12:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 8024
it all boils down to decision making .. and it sounds like a few woman here have made some rotten choices ... then turn and put the blame on all men .. "just something I noticed" ...c  |
Date: 4/3/2007 4:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
Can't we all just get along. SSGgirl? (sorry, I can't read your taggie) I understand how you're feeling. Here you are asking for advice from a man and getting defense for it. Rule #1...NEVER ask a guy to explain himself or you'll be made the brunt of a joke. #2 I guess there is no #2.  |
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Date: 4/3/2007 4:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 17290
I think I've found someone, but if you've ever been to where I go to school, you would understand why I say what I said...and the nice guys never approach you...so then the nice/shy girl has to get up the nerve to talk to him... I was just trying to get inside a guys mind... |
