Date: 1/23/2007 4:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 45630
Don't go down the whole people are worse off than me road. That road leads to guilt and makes you feel ten times worse. Take this from a person who has battled depression for over 15 years. Times are tough and you are always going to be at your worst when times are tough. It is important to search for positives in your day no matter how small. It could be just that the chocolate bar you bought from the vending machine actually came out instead of the machine eating your money. I mean something that small. Then you can slowly see more positives in your day as you feel better. Mate if you ever need an ear to talk to or a shoulder to lean on just pm me because I hate hearing about people going down the roads I've been down. They are scary!!!!  |
Date: 1/23/2007 4:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 38324
Oh dear, please go seek professional help before it's too late. I know right now everythinng seems so horrible that being alive is not worth it anymore, but your wrong. Your life is gonna turn around for you, but you just need help to get yourself moving in the right direction. I have been depressed myself and tried doing the same things as you, thought that my life wasn't worth anything but I sought out help and now am glad that I did so. All of us at USM are here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. We are your friends and family and we care for each other very much. I really hope that things turn around for you and that you get the help that you most desperately need. Great big loving, caring hugs go out to you......  |
Date: 1/23/2007 5:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
You are not worthless, sweetie. It's sad that you were so badly treated by your ex, and lost so much. As for your comment about cutting, I'm not sure what you mean. I suggest that you get some help to get you through this. You sound very depressed. I just said a prayer for you, sweetie, for your peace of mind. If you need to talk to someone, PM me. HUGS  |
Date: 1/23/2007 5:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 64160
How I wish I was with you and could give you ~HUGS~ and that I care! Like you I've stayed in bed for days waiting for the end, and letting the world go, please know hon at some point in all our lives we all feel like someone has 'throw us down and spit and kicked on us', (its real pain that hurts right down to our very being!) You were right to come here for advice, sooo many people can relate and care about you hon. Let us walk you through this and help, ease the suffering and in time you'll see the light again! All my prayers and hopes are with you~GODBLESS~  |
Date: 1/23/2007 8:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 63319
You really do need help if it's that bad. I'm not one to encourage such behavior but people as depressed as you end up committing suicide and that is why I am telling you {{{"NOW"}}} get help. Hope you do get help and may God bless you and heal you of all your worries and trials. My prayers and thoughts will be with you. Peace, Love and Happiness, Sabiebaby!!!  |
Date: 1/23/2007 8:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 14464
You shouldn't feel that other people are worse off then you and it's not fair to feel this way. You have every right to be in any emotion you are in right now. I've been in the same postion as you recently and am finally feeling better. A lot of people get thsi way I think aroundt his time ofthe year because everyone wants to start off fresh so they loose partners and thats devastating and then the gloomyness of the weather isn't helping out. Also if you cut yourself maybe see a doctor and see if they can't help you by getting you on anti depressants or counsiling. I know that even though I'm feeling better I'm going to let my doctor know and get myself some help to prevent this from happening again. Just know USM is always here for you, they were for me. It does help to get everything out as well, ry and write a post everyday about your day and it will help get all that stuff out.  |
Date: 2/18/2008 10:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 58611
Hello old friend! You can get through this and you will! Hold that head up high and if you need help, I'll hold it for ya!  |
Date: 2/19/2008 5:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 27403
This, too, shall pass. I know that is an old worn, out phrase, but it is true. And cutting does nothing but increase your self-hate. It makes you feel better temporarily, because you feel as though you are punishing yourself for being so .......dumb, soft, weak, whatever it is you are punishing yourself for. You don't need punished. You need love. And to get love, you have to give love. FInd someone to do something really nice for today, and love them with a surprise. You will feel better. And do this everyday, until this passes. And it will pass. I promise! Love and Light  |
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