Date: 11/21/2006 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 22275
im like you, and I believe people can change.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 63194
Forgive? yes. Forget? Never  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 62998
Depends on what was done, somethings I can forgive, somethings, I can't  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 35825
You know, I used to hold grudges pretty badly when I was younger, but I learned that it is not worth it...I do forgive now, but I never forget...  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
I tend to hold grudges/  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
It all depends what it is for me.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
I don't forgive unless the offender really realizes he/she has done wrong and ASK for forgiveness. I don't hold grudges; I don't forget; but I don't dwell on the matter either. I LET IT GO. Acceptance is the key. Accepting that which one has no control over; accepting that sometimes the best thing to do is to move on is best.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 4:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 54570
only certain things I can never forgive or even forget. most everything else I have forgave and forgotten. But the most severest....NO  |
Date: 11/21/2006 5:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 63725
I can forgive but rarely forget.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
I forgive, but I don't forget  |
Date: 11/21/2006 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 62927
I used to to this, and some extreme cases I do this. But I've learned to balance this with constructive humor... (just go with it) and being aware and living up to my own boundries.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 5:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
I forgive and learn, as in I won't go around throwing the past in people's faces but I'll definitely be watching my back.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 5:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 40145
yeah like everyone says i do forgive but dont forget but that realy depends, if my "husband" or "boyfriend" cheat, then i refuse to forgive. i usually give ONE chance then if you blow it, well there your chance in the trash.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 9:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 61966
No one can forget not even me but I always forgive. I rarely stay mad at someone for more than 5 minutes..it's too hard to be in a bad mood, lol.  |
Date: 11/21/2006 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 64123
I can forgive if the person has made real measures to ensure the same doesn't happen again and shows a genuine regret for their actions. Forget..hardly. ~PurpleSkies~  |
Date: 11/21/2006 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 7830
i think im the same as you  |
Date: 11/21/2006 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 36352
I've had some pretty bad stuff happen to me that I have forgiven people for, but I can never forget.  |
Date: 11/22/2006 12:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 39043
i am the same as u..I do forgive them but i never forget it. It never leaves me so then im always Ify around them even if they have changed. I guess once they hurt me i dont give them a chance to do it again  |
Date: 11/22/2006 2:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 11528
Soemtimes I forgive but I never forget. To forget is to invite a repeat.  |
Date: 11/22/2006 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I can forgive but I can never forget.  |
Date: 12/1/2006 12:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
I'm the same exact way.  |
Date: 12/1/2006 3:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
I'm slow to anger and also slow to cool off once I'm angry. With family and friends I can forgive and forget but if you're not in that circle, I'll forgive but I don't forget.  |
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