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I Am Honestly A Stupid Girl

  Author:  6915  Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/10/2006 7:34:00 PM)
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Through all my years of being alive I never realized how STUPID I am. This is my fourth year in college and I’m questioning my ability to be able to teach or make it in the world with a political science degree. I like history and most politics..its interesting. Too bad I can’t remember ½ the stuff I learn or even hold a meaningful debate. I wish I could recall facts, names, dates, anything, but I can’t. I can store everything in short term..know it front to back but ask me a month later and Im clueless. Its not just trouble with school though, I make mistakes with everything I do, everywhere I go. I can’t imagine holding a ‘real’ job ( I say real because the job Im at now is the same one I’ve had for 5 years and its like home to me.) Im always unsure of everything I do, and with good reason, since Im always messing everything up. I laugh it off a lot since if I didn’t it would look worse. I make mistakes coaching, doing computer work, and I can’t remember ½ the stuff my boss tells me. I have a real problem and I wish I could fix it. I coach special Olympics, work at the Adapted Rec program we have, and work during the summer at the camp. I recently got promoted to activities director but my cousin is town supervisor and as much as I don’t want to think it, they probably promoted me because of him.

So what do I do about this? I have potential but I feel like a waste right now. I don’t have anything to show for the last 21 years of my life. I sang for a bit, published a few poems but that’s it. I didn’t do great in school, didn’t play sports, and I don’t have any outstanding talents or subject areas Im good in. I love animals but I can’t pass biology or math classes so working with them is out. I want to teach but Im too intimidated and the classes are mundane and drive me insane. I want to graduate in political science but who would hire a girl who doesn’t know a whole lot about anything? Im so lost.

P.s. I need memory recall pills.

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Date: 10/10/2006 7:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 62881    All the information you learned it still in there, Shimmer. You just need to step back and relax. It can re-surface if you let it. Besides...all the lawyers in the world don't remember everything either. That is what they have Law Libraries for...and para legals. Trust in yourself and you will be ok.  
Date: 10/10/2006 7:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 62881    And BTW...You are not STUPID!  
Date: 10/10/2006 7:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 9509    I had the same trouble when I was in school. At first, I thought I had ADD or something. lol  
Date: 10/10/2006 7:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 62579    I feel this way too and I thought I was the only one. This is a fear of mine that I will forget things after I graduate college. I will be a Respiratory Therapist so I can't just mess up and everything will be ok. It's the lives of people!  
Date: 10/10/2006 7:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 62881    Any job you get, you have to be trained and there will be guidelines to follow. You will be amazed at how much of the informaion you learned will just "come back" to you when you aren't thiking about it.  
Date: 10/10/2006 8:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 14909    Welcome to the club. I'm the same way. Jack of all trades, master of none.  
Date: 10/10/2006 8:01:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 6915    Froggy, I hope so. I do forget that they train you before throwing you into the pits of hell. angel, thats why I can't do precise work..I'd end up ending peoples lives.  
Date: 10/10/2006 8:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 62849    Join the club. I turned 23 today and I'm totally lost as to what I want to do for the rest of my life. A day job with weekends and holidays off. That's about the extent of what I know right now. That's what I want to do if I can't win the lottery and do all of my hobbies. Nice plan, huh?  
Date: 10/10/2006 8:09:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 6915    beags, sounds all too familiar. have you been in college awhile?
  
Date: 10/10/2006 8:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 62849    This is my 5th year. If you count summers, this is my 12th "semester" of indecision. Well, not indecision really, but lots of decisions replaced with subsequent decisions. I want to do everything. Unfortunately I don't think I can afford/survive long enough to do 6000 semesters.  
Date: 10/10/2006 9:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 7830    ugh..we're in the same boat.  
Date: 10/10/2006 9:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 63302    learning disabled....maybe add? hugs  
Date: 10/11/2006 5:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 47218    How do you study for your classes? Do you cram a lot? Do you organize the information into more memorable chunks? Most people I know who do poly-sci and government are information junkies, and they're constantly reading newspapers, watching news, reading, reading, reading...do you do this, or do you only cram up on information when it's exam time?  
Date: 10/14/2006 4:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 61901    A stupid person cannot make it through 4years of college. NO not Stupid, A stupid person does not get promoted,no matter who you know, NO not Stupid... Maybe a bit unorganized but not stupid! If you continue to put yourself down this way, then its only gonna get worse. I have faith in you and you must have faith in yourself. Your mind is a well a very deep Well! You have a wealth of insight and information down there. Take your time, breath, focus, I know.... at times your feeling overwhelmed right? Thats normal for smart people, cause they always want to do everything.... You got to take one task at a time.  
Date: 11/10/2006 4:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 64333    Remember that when you want to recall a memory that is hard to remember try to think of something that relates to it and the date of when your forget, also what you did besides that day. You're not stupid either
Date: 5/26/2009 6:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    Don't be too hard on yourself, lady. We're usually a whole lot better than we think. Take care of you, ShimmerKiss. Write on......  

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