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Why do people do this? =Nimiwae=

  Author:  58334  Category:(Discussion) Created:(8/13/2006 6:25:00 PM)
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I found out after 6 months of dating my boyfriend that he was cheating on me. Apparently he has 5 other girlfriends. How simply wonderful.

I don't understand how people can do that to other people. I was happy, happier then I've been in a long time. Even my friends commented that I seemed more talkative and outgoing since I've been with him. And I look back on some of our really good times together and it doesn't even seem possible that anything was going on behind my back. It really hurts.

Sometimes he would joke around about having other girlfriends, but I took them as that -- jokes, and nothing more. But I guess when I look back I can see some ify moments. I just don't understand. The last time we talked he was going on about how much he cares about me and how I'm different then everyone else, and all of that, which I see now is probably all complete crap coming out of his mouth.

So I guess I'm pretty upset and depressed right now. I found this all out on Saturday at a party and spent a good bit of time crying in the bathroom. I don't trust people easily either, and now after this I probably won't even more.

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Date: 8/13/2006 6:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 28071    Cheer-up. There are plenty of fish in the sea. David/  
Date: 8/13/2006 6:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 16376    He's a loser, and you are much better off without him. Even with that said I am sure it is very painful knowing what he did to you. Sorry for what you are going through.  
Date: 8/13/2006 6:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 62798    Sometimes bad things happen to good people. I am sorry to hear abotu this. I have a very hard time trusting,too. But, there will come a time where someone who IS right for you will come along and then I hope you will be ready to trust them. Good luck and God bless. I wish you the best.  
Date: 8/13/2006 6:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 63655    It is hard to know what to say to make you feel better, but just keep your chin up. Know that you are better off without him. Just remember that not all guys are like this and you will find your prince charming one day!!  
Date: 8/13/2006 6:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    it sounds like you were blind to everything else and just wanted to see the best in him.. that does not make you a bad person... you are a great person... he is just not that great of a guy to do that to you.. or the other girls... you deserve much better  
Date: 8/13/2006 6:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 62220    ohhhhh have I been there. I completely understand, and this caused me to be very depressed (I'm okie now). YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS! That's what made me keep my head up, knowing that I was better than just another person to cheat on.  
Date: 8/13/2006 7:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 63302    hugs..it will get easier...i to hope thier are a few good ones left!  
Date: 8/13/2006 7:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 22308    um, how do i put this: GUYS ARE JERKS!!!!...i was with a guy back in 2003 to 2004 for about 5 months and he cheated on me and had about the same amount of girlfriends and your ex did. believe me, when people cheat, they find the time and they find the perfect excuse to come up with because it'll make sense when they tell us...yeah i thought it seemed impossible that he was cheating on me but when i actually sat and thought about it, i know exactly when he'd do it...i'm really surprised your ex was honest when he said he had other girlfriends when you thought that he was joking...crazy...all you've got to do is move on. seems very impossible but its possible....my ex-fiacee cheated on me and i thought he was the most trustworthy person in the world and would never hurt me but he did...went through a lot with him and i actually regret alot of things. but it made me grow...it'll get better i promise!!  
Date: 8/13/2006 8:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 61966    This just means that there is someone out there for you and you two just aren't meant to be. I know me saying that doesn't make it all better, it probably hurts like crap and I'm sorry he did that to you and all those other girls. I don't know why people do that either. I say; if you don't want to be with someone, break up with them..don't cheat, thats just stupid. But on the other hand it sounds like this guy just wanted more than one girl. Regaurdless, you deserve beter than that. Keep your head high and smile so the guy that WILL treat you right can see ya!   
Date: 8/13/2006 8:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 28848    I'm really sorry. I know this hurts.  
Date: 8/13/2006 9:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 12709    Yeee-ep. I hate guys.  
Date: 8/13/2006 9:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 63026    aww sorry to hear this. I dont know why people do this. Keep smiling, and hang out with some friends, and when your ready to fall in love again, then go for it   
Date: 8/13/2006 9:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 15394    wow that really stinks!! Karma will kick his butt... I'm sorry that you had to deal with this... someday the right one will be there and prolly when you aren't looking for him, but I know that sounds just awful right now... I'm sorry for ya   
Date: 8/14/2006 6:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 62570    
Awwww, I'm really sorry for what you're going through *hugs* I'm going through something similar, and if I wasn't I might say the same as everyone else, but I dont really know him, and dont deserve to judge him. Maybe he was originally a good friend, I dont know, but I do hope you feel better. Getting over someone like that can be hard and a painful journey. Just remember, like everyone says, they're plenty of fish in the sea.
  
Date: 8/14/2006 2:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    well you are only 18-19? don't let one guy turn you aganist them all. some people just don't know the meaning of the word faithful. i say you're better off. if you can't trust him then he's not worth having. now, stop crying and go out. my daughter finally took my advice and she's a lot better off. i told her to stop getting so serious about these boys and to graze a little. date different ones and don't tie yourself down.  

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