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Working with another person! The boss doesnt care!...^^^Gazza^^^

  Author:  53054  Category:(Discussion) Created:(4/25/2006 8:26:00 AM)
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So as most of you know I work in a family who has amazing enough 2 Au-Pairs...Yes i know that this is wierd...but it is true...

the thing is that being two Au-Pairs we have to make decissions about what we would like to do and what shifts we work ect. Which is both good and bad!

One example is that tomorrow, I am taking little 'A' with me to meet another Au-Pair who has one child a little older than A. Now both of us Au-Pairs work morning and afternoon shifts...(one 8-2 and the other 12-6). Tomorrow was my turn for the morning shift...and the other Au-Pairs turn for the afternoon shift.

Now the problem is that the person whose house we are going to be going to the other Au-Pair does not like....and so she has decissed that she wants to take the day off....because she wants too...

Next is that on Saturday she is having a 'boyfriend' over...she also has to work on weekends....and we normally spend Saturday working the whole day together and going out somewhere...however this saturday she has told me that I do not need to work...because she wants to go out with the boyfriend, and little A....

Because she wants it....I dont really have a choice....

I just feel that everything is because she wants to have it, or whatever she wants to do then it happens...and I am sick of it....

You know having two Au-Pairs is difficult...but this is getting rediculous...I want to choose a day which I want to have off not one that is confient for HER....

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable....

(I gave her the opportunity to work tomorrow, but she said no because she doesnt like this other girl), then she has also given me the opportunity to go out with her 'boyfriend'....however the thing is that SHE HAS NEVER MEET THIS GUY! i dont know what to do...I know that they need to have time alone, but we should both be working...I am sick of having to change my scheduale for her all the time....

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Date: 4/25/2006 9:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 62849    So wait.. is she taking "A" out with her boyfriend just so she doesn't have to take the day off and miss out on some pay? That's not very fair to you. Explain to the parents that you're a little concerned that she's taking the kid out with a guy she hasn't met face-to-face and that you'd feel more comfortable having "A" at home.  
Date: 4/25/2006 9:22:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53054    but the thing is that the other Au-Pair has told them already that they have meet face to face...and i cant really tell them that this has not happened!  
Date: 4/25/2006 10:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 16845    I agree with Beags...you say you can't tell them but you really NEED to...she hasn't met the guy...who knows if he's some axe murderer or something (Ok being dramatic) I just know as a parent I'd be furious if I found out my childs care giver was out and about with some guy that she'd never met and had MY child with them....they really need to know....  
Date: 4/25/2006 11:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 53052    tell her you'd rather look after the child then her taking the child along with her boyfriend.. it really isn't appropriate for her to be going to see her boyfriend while she is working(having the child) ask her if it would be easier to write this all down or you can start going through your boss when it comes to days off.. i dont think she should be dictating your days off  
Date: 4/25/2006 12:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53054    I agree, and I was talking with the boss before i left about this situation, however the conversation was interupted when the other girl and the partner walked into the room, so i never got to hear her opinion on the subject....  
Date: 4/25/2006 12:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    tell the other girl you dont like to be told your days off by her... i can understand that if she really does not feel comfy being around the other au-pair with the child to see about switching a work day with you.. but it shouldn't be both days of her choosing  

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