Date: 4/15/2006 3:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 46527
No, I don't believe you have to be selfish, just willing to work hard.  |
Date: 4/15/2006 3:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53054
but sometimes even if you work hard, you get nothing in return...except of course for yourself, but really that will not get you far in a job which gets you no where...  |
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Date: 4/15/2006 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 46527
Ah, but it is also essential to make sure you are working hard at the right things. |
Date: 4/15/2006 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
Everybody by nature is selfish in some way. But just because somebody wants to look out for themselves I wouldn't really call them selfish.  |
Date: 4/15/2006 3:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 58416
Well for me if I'm working hard for something in life, not only is it for me but, for my family. If your stepping on toes to do it, then I believe that's when it becomes selfish.  |
Date: 4/15/2006 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
It depends on what you mean by "Getting anywhere" ..I think if you want wealth & power, then yes you have to be selfish. If you want true happiness and love, I believe you gain such by helping and giving to others with is a selfless act.  |
Date: 4/15/2006 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 63026
heres a quote to remember..."be nice to the people you meet along the way up to the top...there the same people youll meet coming down"  |
Date: 4/15/2006 5:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
I dont think that those people are really happy with themselves in the long run. Aslong as your doing things for you and being honest and not hurting others then you will be more happy with what you have and with what you achieve by being yourself.  |
Date: 4/15/2006 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I think it's a matter of balance. Like one one hand you need to take care of yourself, on the other you can not do it so much that you do not really look out for others.  |
