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Helping others, and feeling down...^^^Gazza^^^

  Author:  53054  Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/2/2006 12:11:00 PM)
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I know a lot of my posts have been pretty down kind of posts, so sorry...

I feel like I am always looking after other people...helping other people out, more than what I should, but the thing is that no one helps me out. I want to be able to talk to someone, to hug them, to not think that I am a burden on them...but I always do, and so i just do not tell anyone...

I do think that I am improving, but it is nice, sometimes to have somebody who you can just talk with and cry sometimes, I know that sounds a little selfish, but lately I have been using alcohol once again to overcome feeling anything at all...Which is not a good idea...not a lot of people know that this is happening, but it came to my attention this morning, and it has been bothering me for a little while...

i just wanted to vent a little bit more.....

Many hugz to all.

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Date: 4/2/2006 12:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 63366    Sounds like you’re not appreciated by those you help. Or they’re incapable of showing appreciation for the things you do. So put down the alcohol get up go to a group (Church, help) in your area and vent there. Real human interaction is always better than electronic. You may find there are a lot of people in your same situation, which in it self is a great relief. The problem of talking to a bottle is it never talks back and it’s as cold and inconsiderate. You can always come here to vent to that’s why we’re here. Smile it costs nothing and feels good allover;-)…Disinformer  
Date: 4/2/2006 12:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    if you ever want to talk, make a post, many of us are here to listen.. or you can send me a message and we can chat  
Date: 4/2/2006 1:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 58416    You are so getting a hug from me ((((((HUGZ)))))) If you ever need someone to listen just send me a message.   
Date: 4/2/2006 2:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 62983    I understand how you feel and alcohol is not the solution. I've been there and it only dulls the pain for a moment. If you need a shoulder or someone to vent to you are welcome to message me. As a matter of fact depending on where you are in Switzerland, I could give you a hug in person as I am only next door in Austria. You don't have to feel like you are alone. If you need to reach out please do. Take care of yourself and know that there are people who care :-) {{GIANT HUGZ}} *WanderingGurl*  
Date: 4/2/2006 2:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 14314    You are not alone, we are here for you ((HUGS)) We all care about you, feel free to message me if you want to talk God Bless  
Date: 4/2/2006 4:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 63449    It's a pity when a compassionate soul, such as yourself, gets worn down. Please, please, please take care of yourself. Alcohol truly is NOT going to make things any better. Vent anytime you need by getting on here and writing. We'll listen to you! ~CarolinaBlueGirl~  
Date: 4/2/2006 4:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 62826    Don't be sorry for how you feel. You are a good and caring person. Yes, people do not show appreciation when we put out so much effort to help, but, don't get depressed over how they don't reciprocate. Don't get into a drinking mode when you feel depressed----it will only depress you more. We all need hugs and I know where you are coming from-- maybe you need to let the other person come to you. If I were there I would give you a big hug and it would be a bear hug because that would be me. Not the little tap tap that so many people do. Be kind to yourself Gazza. Smile for me........Lorkrister
Date: 4/2/2006 7:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    And a big hug to you, anytime you want to JUST talk, feel free to msg me, My door is always open.  
Date: 4/4/2006 1:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 16069    You make yourself feel like a burden, nobody else does. People are not mind readers, if you want anything in life you have to ask for it!  

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