Date: 2/17/2006 5:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
infertility isnt something in your genes(though birth defects are) dont get too worried... you period may have been late for reasons other then pregnancy(are you trying to get pregnant?) dont worry yourself too much...MANY things can cause your period to be late, stress, food changes, moving, travel  |
Date: 2/17/2006 7:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 18887
it takes a while or trying.. sometimes you get it the first time something you get it the fifth time.  |
Date: 2/17/2006 7:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 40145
it took a year and half to have JD, its just takes time,  |
Date: 2/17/2006 8:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 7830
for alot of people it takes years to become pregnant. if youre worried though why not go get tested for fertility?  |
Date: 2/17/2006 8:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 62849
Ahh, I didn't know you were trying to get pregnant! Maybe all of this is just nature's way of saying you're not ready to have a baby yet?  |
Date: 2/17/2006 8:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 943
I totally believe that the harder you try the less likely it is to happen. Seriously, when you relax, it seems to happen right away. Quit thinking about it, and nature will take its course.  |
Date: 2/17/2006 9:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 16845
It's fairly normal to have to try for a while...I think I read somewhere only 25% of fertilized eggs will ever implant...getting pregnant RIGHT away is definatly not the norm..  |
Date: 2/17/2006 10:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 42259
I haven't had a normal period since I was 14.I have cysts on my ovaries which is very comman.I'm just recently engaged but my doc told me that when I'm ready if I take pills to regulate my period for a few months I should'nt have any trouble. Good luck,hun.  |
Date: 2/17/2006 10:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 25183
Yep, I agree with everyone else. Don't stress yet. My best friend tried for almost 3 years, she started at 25 and now she just finished her first trimester. She went to the doctor several times and he kept telling her not to worry it would happen, and it did.
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Date: 2/17/2006 10:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 27403
I think you probably have not been pregnant yet, and your worrying is making you late. You can always have it checked out by the doctor, but I really think there is not a probalem here! Love and Light  |
Date: 2/17/2006 11:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 27046
From the sounds of it and correct me if I'm wrong but you describe this as the 3rd oops that's happened. That more or less indicates that you use some kind of birthcontrol, I'm assuming condom and that you are aware that something didn't go right with it. I wouldn't classify having an oops with birthcontrol and finding out that you aren't pregnant a sure fire sign to go by and get myself into thinking that there must be something wrong and I can't have kids. For some women one oops is all it takes, for others it takes a few definate oops'. My husband and I didn't use any protection for 10 straight months before my daughter was conceived. 16 months after she was born my son made his entrance with one oops. I wouldn't worry so much until you are seriously and actively trying for more than a year and you haven't conceived. But as I said my assumption could be wrong that you are currently using a form of birth control.  |
Date: 2/17/2006 11:38:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33918
thank you for all your kinds words  |
Date: 2/17/2006 12:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
YOu have been able to get pregnant so I believe you will have children. It took me seven years to finally pack a baby.  |
Date: 2/17/2006 2:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 63114
"Pack a baby" FB? LOL *!!BIG HUGS!!* I'm the wrong person to be giving advice on this topic, but I would definitely take all of these wonderful replies into consideration. I certainly am  Good luck! ~*PurpleSwanPrincess*~  |
Date: 2/17/2006 5:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I only had to think about it and I got preggers!! now others in the family took years...so my advice is not worry about it so much, let nature take its course...one of my cousins took 10yrs then had two babies very close, so unless there is a physical reason with you or your partner, relax and go with the flow!!! good luck sweetie  |
Date: 2/18/2006 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 58553
I am 26. suffer from PCOS which causes infertility.my periods were all screwed up. I have tried for years to get pregnant doctors said i would have to have fertility treatments which i could not afford.. I totally gave up on it. never put no more thought in it. I wasnt ever gonna have kids. Guess what? 3 weeks ago. I found out i was pregnant. 8 weeks. Just out of the Blue. so dont give up. If it can happen to me it will happen to you. ever want to talk im here...Good Luck  |
