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Date: 9/7/2005 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 62849
It's a cute story, and I don't mean to sound rude or know-it-all-ish, but please please please give it time and take it slow and easy, eh? You say you were over your ex in a day or two... either you didn't love her or you aren't over her. Don't get your heart broken. I'm not saying you don't have feelings for this girl or your ex, but I think you're making it out to be a lot more complicated than it is. -Beags  |
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Date: 9/7/2005 3:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 62849
*not saying that you don't have feelings for this girl or that you didn't have them for your ex... good work with the grammar, me. |
Date: 9/7/2005 4:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62163
Hey beags! No problem, I understand, maybe I'm not over my ex, I haven't looked at it that way, cause I did love her. Come to think of it I really didn't get over her. Hmmm, this sucks. Maybe I am makeing it a whole lot more complicated than it is. I might be. Oh and beags, it's not me thats really wanting to take it fast, she is just going at her pace, I'm just following her. Really it's faster than I've ever gone with someone, relationship wise. But I'm cool with it. Thanks Beags! - Mr.Nascar-  |
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Date: 9/7/2005 5:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 62849
No problem- I've had my points of confusion, too!! Here's what I've learned- I have a better time when I quit worrying about it. I have "dated" many guys in my life- but for the most part I got rid of 'em after a couple of weeks. I didn't want the "hassle," and I was too worried about the outcome than I was about the present time. Once I got over that, and began to enjoy myself, did I start having long term relationships (this is a VERY new discovery for me). I'm coming up on a year with an awesome guy- we both live for ourselves and our lives happen to coincide nicely. I can't imagine being without him, but at the same time I know that if I had to be without him, I'd do ok because my world doesn't revolve completely around him. Hehe, it's easy once you get the hang of it. -Beags |
Date: 9/7/2005 5:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Of course we'd say differently if we were in your shoes.. no 14 year old boy thinks they're too young for anything.. haha. But, I agree with Beags' first comment.. over your ex in 2 days and you loved her? I dunno, man.. it took me over 9 months to get over my first love.. I could have had a baby in that time.. :P I think it's nice that you're obviously a guy and romantic (which doesn't happen often), but take it a step at a time and don't rush love.. love takes time. <33  |
Date: 9/7/2005 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 62901
I sure do miss that feeling! Glad somebody has it though. Good luck to you and your new gal. Y'all sound great for eachother!  |
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Date: 9/7/2005 9:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 62901
Oh, gosh Beags. That sounds just like me! "I have "dated" many guys in my life- but for the most part I got rid of 'em after a couple of weeks. I didn't want the "hassle," and I was too worried about the outcome than I was about the present time." Sounds so familiar. Unfortunately though, the one time i feel way you do with your guy now, I felt like that too... but he I guess didn't. That was almost 4 mo. ago and I still hurt over it. Of course I never share that with anyone because we weren't together for very long but I felt it, even if my friends thought it was too short of time. I don't think there's a day that goes by that he doesn't cross my mind a couple times even real quick. |
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