NKA is back for today with news. Your input, +/-, is welcome:)

Hi everyone



Sorry it’s been so long since I’ve been around. I’ve had a lot of things going on in my life and thought it would be better to take a break. I even took a break from my own website; a break I don’t think is over yet. A lot of you have messaged me or emailed me so I thought I would share with you some of the happenings in my life so you don’t think I’m hurt or kidnapped or god knows what.



I’ve really been focusing on my diet. If you all recall; I lost a lot of weight last year but it crept back on me after I quit smoking. By New Year’s I found that I had practically gained it all back. I was so much happier and healthier because I didn’t smoke (I smoked over 2 packs a day for years) but I still needed to get into shape. I decided that I was able to tackle both so back to the LC diet it was for me. So I’ve managed to start losing weight again while be smoke free and I’m totally proud of myself. The weight loss is slower this time around but that’s okay. I feel good. I eat right and I exercise every day.

My next issue is one that some of you are aware of and some of you aren’t. I have ADHD with chronic fatigue from Lupus. Just try to imagine a really hyper, zoned, and narcoleptic with arthritis and that’s me. I was taking medication for a long time to help but I woke up about a month ago and decided that I was no longer going to be a slave to medication. I was on a medication that is basically a time released Ritalin. Taking that medication for the rest of my life would probably leave me in the grave by 50. Both my parents died at 50 and I don’t want to follow in their footsteps. I have children and I want to be around for them for as long as I can.



So here I am smoke free, carb free, and medication free. I take vitamins to keep me healthy along with exercise. I’ve never felt better physically and my mind has never been clearer. My doctor said he is amazed at how much I have been able to put my ailments under control with diet and exercise. So yeah, I rock!



So you thought that was all, eh? Not quite! My husband and I have actually been discussing two major changes in our lives that we would like to see happen soon; both of which would fall into the holy heck that’s freaking major category and both of which most of my friends here would find hard to believe. We have been talking about moving to the West Coast and having a baby. The baby part would require IVF because I had a tubal ligation but it is something we are seriously considering. The moving part might really come true soon. We both just received really sweet job offers from the West Coast. It was actually kind of strange because they happened almost simultaneously and we didn’t plan or expect that at all.



Up until about 2 months ago, I would have never agreed to move across the country because I thought it was important for me to stay on the East Coast but that mindset has changed. A while ago this really horrible thing happened to me that I can’t go into too much detail about but I was talking on the phone with a loved one and then that person talked to Mystica and forgot to hang up the phone and Mystica was eavesdropping (I know it isn’t very lady like) and she put me on the phone and I heard this person tell really harsh lies about me. After I put my neck out for them and right after they were on the phone with me while I was crying my eyes out for them; they lied about me. I was, at that point, making plans with my husband to drain his savings to pay to, let’s say rescue them, like they ASKED me to and then I heard the lies and haven’t spoken with them since. Like I said, I can’t go into too much detail but you all know that little stuff doesn’t rock me so I am sure you can understand that this was grave and totally devastated me. Regardless, I will always love that person but apparently the feeling isn’t mutual. I’ll still be responsible and fulfill my obligations regardless of where I am but I can’t sit on their emotional rollercoaster any longer…



Well, there is still a myriad of things to share but I know you are all busy, too and don’t have time to read my book:p



I miss you all so much and I haven’t forgotten any of you!

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