Date: 2/16/2005 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 8555
Your too good to give him a second chance, no one deserves to be blown off like that. You deserve way better!  |
Date: 2/16/2005 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
im sorry he did that to you hun. hes such a loser. now pick yourself up, dust yourself off. and move on sweety. your way to good for someone like him.  |
Date: 2/16/2005 6:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 63035
I agree with Meike.. Forget about him and move on. As Qui Gon said in Starwars.. "There is always a bigger fish..", and "There are more fish in the sea". -Dr.Stargazer  |
Date: 2/16/2005 6:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 62798
i am really sorry that happened to you. i've never been in that position,so i can't really help...but take care and stay strong  |
Date: 2/16/2005 7:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do. I'm sorry you were hurt. You need to move on and learn from it. Maybe there is an explanation but let him be the one to come to you.  |
Date: 2/16/2005 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 62872
I can say that I myself have in the past been blown off like that and no it doesnt get any easier the hardest decision you have to make now is this: When will I get the nerve to say Im not taking this ( ) anymore and I have to stick to my guns I have been struggling with that very problem now and that is I have to let go of my wife and embrace my best friend who by the way IS the only person to stick with me through great times and absolute nightmares maybe things will change one day but for now I love my best friend....Thunder Wolf  |
Date: 2/16/2005 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 35808
Why don't you just call him and see whats up? I don't see how you've been "played", he just hasn't called, maybe he can't deal with the intensity of what he feels for you, so he bails. Then again, maybe he doesn't feel anything. *Shrugs* The best way to find out is to ask him.  |
Date: 2/16/2005 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Just ask him hun...there may be a logical reason as to why he hasnt called....and theres only one way to find out..ASK him!!!! if you feel any vibes suggesting him backing away, move on in your life, there's plenty more out there waiting for a nice person like you.....hugs  |
Date: 2/16/2005 8:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
I say just leave the situation alone..This guy is a moron. If you really "had something" this guy wouldnt be acting like this. TRUST ME..there are lots of guys out there who have jobs, car and all that other junk you want in a guy. This guy sounds like a jerk! He really isnt sweet or easy to talk to is he, if he keeps ignoring you and blowing you off...Your too good for him!  |
Date: 2/16/2005 9:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
he has probbly changed alot since then, who knows he probbly did not want a girlfriend back then or somthing. He may have rejected you before dose not mean you should reject him now. another reason could be becauser he lost your number I mean if he had the number to call you on why would he ask one of your friends for your number.  |
Date: 2/16/2005 10:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Thanks for all the advice everyone. I want to call him but I don't want to come off as clingy or anything because I have this feeling that he's trying to give me a hint. Neither of us could call each other right now anyways because my phone's dead and I don't have my charger with me.  I'm pretty sure I'm through with this guy though.  |
Date: 2/17/2005 12:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 62915
I think you are great for giving him a second chance. This same situation happened to me only a little worse. After the second chance he deserves no more so I would ignore him unless he offers a fabulous explanation! Id say let the guy go. Ghost-chick  |
Date: 2/17/2005 12:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 34912
forget about him and don't look back. This is sooo his loss... just a booster for you (and I never lie) you are smokin' hot!  - and obviously very sweet and sentimental. This guy is primate compared to you if he can't see that, so let it go.  |
Date: 2/19/2005 5:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 63068
hummmmmmmmm maybe he is gay? I am not saying that from the psychic point of view but something is definately wrong! You sound too sweet of a girl to let that happen to you.
I don't have any luck with men either sweetie and I am 43. divorded 3 times and I swear I have this sign attached to my back "ALL MORONS APPLY HERE" The one I am with now is no exception! Huggssssss! Jennifer |
Date: 2/23/2005 10:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Thank you to everyone that replied.  The thing is...now I feel REALLY dumb because this all turned out to be a misunderstanding. Him and his dad share a cellphone, they don't have a home phone...and apparently it was his dad reading the text messages I sent him. He ended up calling me while I was at work and leaving all these messages asking if I was mad at him and why I wouldn't answer his calls. It's all cleared up now. We're going out this Friday. But thanks again to everyone who commented!! |
