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how do you ask a guy on a date?

  Author:  52140  Category:(Discussion) Created:(2/15/2005 7:12:00 AM)
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There's this guy in my English class. I've talked to him and graded some of his work. He's a nice guy. My friend really wants me to ask him out and I want to also, but Im TOO shy.

I know I can get over the shyness, but my only problem is that I don't know how to ask him. I don't want to go in a steady relationship, but just a couple of dates to see if we are compatible. I need to know how to ask him if he has a girlfriend also. I just don't know how to!!!

Any tips?

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Date: 2/15/2005 7:30:00 AM  From Authorid: 49763    You can find out through your friends if he has a girlfriend I'm sure one of them knows or could find out for you. ~~  
Date: 2/15/2005 7:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    That was convo...Not covo   
Date: 2/15/2005 7:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    You could ask his friends...Or try and get to know him, then casually drop "So, do you have a girlfriend?" into the covo lol   
Date: 2/15/2005 7:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 61897    I personally wouldn't. Let him know you like him and are interested with eye contact, body language, being attentive and the way you respond to him. Then wait for him to do the asking. But try to find out if he has a gf first, by asking around or by casually saying something like "So did you do anything nice for your gf on Valentine's Day?", you know, something like that involving "his gf". You'll find out that way by his response. If he doesn't ask you out after some time, he is either def. not interested or is more shy than you which is less likely than him not being interested. If you still want to bite the bullet, go ahead and just ask him out, I don't advice it though for a variety of reasons. But you never know, it may work out just depends on HOW you do it and go about it.  
Date: 2/15/2005 8:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 36850    start small, ask him if he wants to grab some coffee with your or get a bite to eat. Nothing serious, just causual and then while you're out, find out all that you need to know. If he's interested, while you're having coffee, he may ask if you'd like to have dinner with him or something. Good luck. moonshine3  
Date: 2/15/2005 8:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 52141    If your not that shy then take the bull by the horns and ask him out worse case scenario he says no.. then move on.. as others said on the GF issue ask around.. friends that you trust and such.. if not that then just strike up a convo about V-day.. since it was just yesterday would be easy.. just ask him what sort of things he got if he had a secret valentine pop the gf thing in there somewhere hint that you didn't have a valentine see how he reacts then ask him out to the movies or something.. go see a thriller or something else casual like that.. goodluck hun!  
Date: 2/15/2005 10:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 35808    Just ask if he wants to hang out sometime, and then take it from there. So what if he does have a gf? They aren't married. If you like him, go for it, if he says he has a girlfriend, tell him you still want to get to know him.  
Date: 2/15/2005 11:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 35720    I don't know how I do it because alot of people seem to be shy about propositioning guys for a date or otherwise.. I just ask. *shrug* It's never failed me.  
Date: 2/15/2005 2:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 62383    Just walk up. Say "hey, do you have a gf?" Then he will answer yes or no. If yes you ask "whats her name?" then whatever he says, u say " Oh I thought I might have known her, I thought I thought I saw you with a girl that looked familar" Then if he says no you say something like " Oh I thought I saw this girl (whatever first name) with you" ((Or if he asks, "WHY?" then you state the " I thought I saw you with someone I knew" ))) Then on a later day, you ask him out of no where if he would like to hang out sometime. Then youll get a yes or no.. if yes... BAM! YOUR IN! lol If he shoots you down just say, "dont act like your not impressed." lol BUT if that is all complicated, just ask " Do you have a gf because I would like to hang out sometime"  
Date: 2/15/2005 6:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 25756    I don't have any suggestions, but I am going to read some of these comments myself!  
Date: 2/15/2005 6:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 25756    Lol! I liked GotMike's take on this....he planned out a scenario very throughtfully!  
Date: 2/15/2005 9:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 48250    I Agree with Chi-Girl...Best Wishes and let us know how it goes!...T/C  
Date: 2/15/2005 9:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 48250    LOL@ GOT Mike...wouldn't it be nice if we could all be as "Bold as Brass" as that!... LOL ....T/C  
Date: 2/15/2005 11:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 62146    write down what you wanna say to him on a note and give that to him.  
Date: 2/16/2005 2:09:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    LOL @ Got Mike's comment....but when you really think about it, he is right, I think its good advice....hugs  

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