Date: 2/12/2005 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
When I cut, I was always depressed. After I stopped, it took a while but I'm way happier.. cutting just made things worse.  |
Date: 2/12/2005 2:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
yea it does. I dunna, just some weird theory stuff..   |
Date: 2/12/2005 2:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 3835
I never understood why people cut themselves. It is posts like this that help me to understand the whys.. I find it so unbearable that some of you blessed souls out there feel the urge and need to do this to yourselves. I do not condemn you for your actions, I hold compassion that one day it will come upon you that this is not the way leading to happiness. If I could, I would hug each of you and empower that hug with energies of healing and love... just healing love that you could actually feel inside of you. I would want to replace the sorrow with a smile, even if only felt inside of each of you. I could not stop any of you from doing this to yourselves.. although if I could I would do my best to try.. but all that I can offer unto each of you is the promised Hope, that one day all this would be behind you and guilt would not haunt your memories, but the memories of the love and happiness felt would remain as the courageous reminders of what brought you back into the Light of Happiness. Bless all your hearts for your strength to come foreward and discuss your pain so openly. I wish you all Breath of Compassion and Understanding, borne from within the Light of Love. *hugs to all of you*  |
Date: 2/12/2005 4:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 61946
I myself am not a cutter, but my step son is and I think your words have just gave me the right words to talk to him about it. Thanks so much for the help even though I never asked the question.  |
Date: 2/12/2005 4:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
When I cut it was out of anger, I cut because I'd rather hurt myself then someone else and I had to get the anger out somehow. Through the Lord Jesus, my anger has faded as well as the scars. Good post hon.  |
Date: 2/12/2005 5:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
an excellent post hun, so sad that people that have to cut themselves cannot talk with someone about whatever it is that is troubling them...and yes I know that it is not always possible...but I'm sure this post will be beneficial to others who find that need.....hugs  |
Date: 2/12/2005 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 62876
Sur5r said it so beautiful. I ditto all that she said. I hope your post helps someone else that feels like you do.  |
Date: 2/12/2005 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 18928
This is a very good post, and it is going to help people.  |
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Date: 2/13/2005 5:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
I thank you all for reading this. Im glad it helped some people and Im glad it informed others as well. That you for taking your time to read this and reply. May God bless each and everyone of you. |
Date: 2/14/2005 2:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
I had a friend who used to cut and they were deep cuts. I felt incredibly bad for her - I never really realized how hard she had it.  But this is a very great post for those who've been there and done that (I never cut myself, but, as I said, my friend did), and it's a good thing you posted it. "hugs"  |
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Date: 2/18/2005 2:51:00 PM ( Admin-FA )
I cut. I've been cutting a lot more recently because of recent events in my life that I have no other way to handle them other than cutting. I have many many MANY scars on my leg. I don't regret it. I consider them that saying "Battle Scars". |
Date: 5/16/2005 10:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 36079
I cut a few times in my life, at my lowest points, when I look at the scars it brings me back to that place for half a second. Of course I wear my watch backward on that wrist... ugh. I think cutters have magor life and mental issues, they found a way to help cope, but it is just as bad as drugs and other destructive behaviors. It seems like many cutters accept this behavior, and don't or discontinue seeking proffesional help. Like drug addicts I don't think many want to give it up or get help. I think the best thing is to go on anti depressants, and keep on going to different therapists till you find the right one. Sometimes homeopathic remedies are the only meds that work for some people.  |
