Date: 2/10/2005 12:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 15904
uh..no  |
Date: 2/10/2005 12:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Harrassment is NEVER ok.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 12:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 62926
no i don't think it is ok. but hurting others probably makes them feel better about themselves. the thing is to ignore them. if they don't see a reaction they don't get anything from it. i grew up in a very crazy family and my mother was the person that put us through it. i notice ignoring it might make it better.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 12:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 62876
No, it is never OK to treat someone badly. People do tend to show be lenient toward people when they have had a hard life, but still it is no excuse, and people need to be accountable for themselves.  |
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Date: 2/10/2005 1:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 15904
ignoring it doesn't help. it makes bullies think that you're an easy target because you're not gonna do anything about it. the best way to deal with bullies is to either move to another school or to fight back. |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 10344
It's not ok for anyone to try and ruin your life,...regaurdless of what their life has been like.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
Nope...It's never all right to try and make other people feel bad, even if it would make you feel better. There's other ways..  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
There are plenty of people who have crappy lives and treat others with respect and dignity... having a hard period in your life doesn't give you the right to drag others down.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 62383
Nope, murder them with a boot. jk  but no.. people dont have to be harsh, its a choice.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 62599
Everyones got problems, that doesnt give ya the right to harrass others. But, if it was something reaaaallly bad, and i don't mean divorce bad, i mean, mother kills father and then commits suicide bad, then I'd understand. Not saying itd be ok, it still wouldnt be, but I'd understand.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 62624
people that are like that are just making excuses for their behaviour. People like that honestly make me sick! Think of all the people that have had hard lives. Think of the ones that had their parents beat them constantly, did drugs, whatever...people that changed the situation they were in and made it! There are people out there that don't want to repeat the cycle of their childhood lives. People that turned out to be Doctors, lawyers, good people. You CAN change your situation!  |
Date: 2/10/2005 1:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 63011
No, there is no excuse for someone to harrass you. He might think his hard life gives him a reason to do it, but it doesnt. He probably does it because he feels bad about himself and that's his way of dealing with it. -GreenClover  |
Date: 2/10/2005 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 62998
CF, let me tell you. take a look at my Profile and then look at my replies. I have it rough, but you know what, I get up with a smile, drink my COFFEE!!!!!!!!!! and try to make people laugh, life isn't fair. So I just kick it back in the jimmies and have more COFFEE!!!!!!!! hehehe - Typo Demon  |
Date: 2/10/2005 2:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Never. Just because they have a tough life is no excuse to treat you badly. I would want someone like that out of my life. I would shun them until such time that they once again deciede to be civilizied.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 2:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
Harrasment is never okay .... If someone has had a bad life, and wants to make someome else's life miserable also .. Its just gonna come around and bite that person in the *cough* and just make their own life more miserable. People like this are just sad .. Treat others as you would like to be treated.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 2:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Of course it isnt ok. Having a bad life does not give you an excuse to be a bad person.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 3:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
that is never okay  |
Date: 2/10/2005 3:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 12118
Nope. Hard knocks happen to everyone, and just because your life seems harder than someone else's, it gives you no reason to make their life miserable. If anything, a hard life should drive people to make choices that would help others and make them feel better.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 3:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
It's never okay to treat anybody like crap. Just because someone's had a cruddy life gives them no reason to treat others like crap. I had somewhat of a bully, too, in high school. Apparently, she had a crappy life, and whenever I talked to someone about it, they waved it away, saying, "She has a crappy life, so she can't help it". YEAH RIGHT! There's never an excuse to be a jerk.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 58308
Absolutely not.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 5:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 62915
No its not OK but sometimes people do these things because they don't see another way. i was guilty of this and I'm not proud of it. I was teeased constantly all through school and it got to the point where it made my life unbearable. there was a girl that I didn't like for whatever reasons and not many other people liked her eitehr. I didn't tease her so much as make her really sure I didn't like her. It's hard being in that situation and not knowing what to do. I made the wrong choice. I still don't agree with what I did and it was no excuse. It is like saying that it is excusable that people who have been sexually abused do it to other people. Everyone make choices and these people tend to make the wrong choices.  Ghost-chick  |
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Date: 2/10/2005 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 62904
I have to agree with the others..it's never okay to harrass or try to make another's life miserable..just because someone has had a hard/bad life. **Walks with the Night** |
Date: 2/10/2005 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
no  |
Date: 2/10/2005 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
Simple answer..no..it's not okay for someone to harass you or try to ruin your life for any reason.  |
Date: 2/10/2005 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 14314
No, it´s not ok!! God Bless!  |
Date: 2/10/2005 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 18928
well said rika  |
Date: 2/11/2005 1:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 19460
I detest anyone who uses the bad life, or bad childhood excuse for anything. Please! I don't know one person who says "Wow man I had a wonderful, perfect childhood and my life rawks like no man's business!" No one has any right to harass another person. And I mean harrass as in bully, name call, or physically harm. My life hasnt been peaches and cream, but I atleast try and give people my respect, and then maybe they will respect me enough to treat me right, maybe making my life a little better.  |
Date: 2/11/2005 8:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 39887
Life is too short to be crapped on by anyone. I think having a bad life is all the more reason to be nice. We can't blame people for our misfortunes,thats life. We are responsible for making llife what we want it to be.  |
Date: 2/13/2005
From Authorid: 19625
No, it would not be ok. It's never ok, there aren't any excuses for hurting someone else.  |
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