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Date: 12/30/2004 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
I don't know if it was all the drinking, maybe that was it...maybe maybe. I hope that your friendship is not too hurt.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 6:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 30786
I would not say it was from the drinking... the reason being that I cannot even begin to count the number of times we've been drunk together and she has never pulled any crap like this before  |
Date: 12/30/2004 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
I agree with B. Monkey, the drinking sounds like the problem. Some just automatically ASSUME things when drinking and make nothing into something just cause they can. I'd have a talk with her. Maybe not talk to her first, let her come to you. If you dont have someone to go out with on New Years Eve, u can come with me n my 2 girlies LOL  |
Date: 12/30/2004 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 27583
THERES A LESSON TO BE LEARNED HERE.... i don't think i would be going out the next evening with someone who disrespected me in such a way as she treated you even if she was drinking. let her think about her actions for a few days. maby she will come to her sences and remember who her friend has always been.. wooden nickel  |
Date: 12/30/2004 6:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 25856
Well, it might have been a combination of alcohol and something else. I'm sorry. If it were me, I wouldn't be talking to her for awhile.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 6:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 39043
I'm sorry this happened to you. If it was me, i would be hurt and I prolly wouldn't talk to her for awhile. She may not even remember what happened if she was drunk. But she still shouldn't have done that, drunk or not! If you don't talk to her for awhile, like call her orsomething, then she will get the hint and more then likely call you to see what is up. Then tell her why you didn't call. Be honest with her about it. And if she doesn't call you to see what is up then 1. she doesn't remember what happened 2 she is too ashamed of what she did and doesn't want to face you or 3 she doesn't care what she did.. Good luck, i hope it all works out for the best! *Hugs*  |
Date: 12/30/2004 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 48758
I think it was the drinking...She may not have done this any other time when she has been drunk but there is always a first..Especially when it comes to drinking...One may never know how another acts under the influence of alcohol...Trust me I know... Good luck and best wishes...**Hugs  |
Date: 12/30/2004 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
People are never themselves when they drink.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 9:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 49539
If you guys never fought or anything, maybe a bunch of stuff has been building and the alcohol allowed it to come out. I would confront her and ask if she even remembers that one night. I'm sure if you've been friends with her for 8 years you can work things out. Just don't give up yet.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 9:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
she was drunk probbly, it can be sorted out.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 9:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
If it was me and I was in your place, I think I would confront her about her behavior toward you. Especially since she did hurt you by her words and actions...It's never good to let things go. You both need to talk and talk before going out as you have planned to do...A friendship of eight years isn't worth throwing away over one night of foolishness....Maybe she was feeling a bit jealous and the alcohol did the talking??? But hey it's worth a try to talk to her....  |
Date: 12/30/2004 11:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 62383
slap her!!! SLAP of the fingas! no im jk... but i would call and say hey.. or something. Esp if u are friends like that. She may of been in a mood or something, i would sort it out before you go out again.  |
Date: 12/30/2004 11:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 62971
you never know what people will do or say when there drunk...even you may say or do something like that when you get drunk...you never know...Arc Angel  |
Date: 12/31/2004 2:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 59385
Well,to me if she acted like that Drunk she was probably holding alot of stuff in,and in your post you said you never fought,thats unusual,friends fight,like in any relationship,I would stay away from her,and your still pretty young,as is she,maybe she needs to grow up some more,take it easy  |
Date: 12/31/2004 7:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 56489
My bestfriend used to be like that, but she'd never be stupid enough to say anything to me or I'd have to clean her clock. But when we'd go out she'd hate when I got any attention over her. If someone bought me a drink then bought her one it was time to leave she was bored, but if it was the other way around it was ok. And forget it if someone asked her who I was, or said I was pretty she'd cringe with jealousy. But Lisa was and still to this day is beautiful, everyone always would mistake us for sisters, me I've gained a few pounds and cut my long locks off, and don't spend 1/4 as much money on beauty regime as she does. But me I always thugh they were buying her the drinks, & was just bought cause I was with her, LOL. I was never a bar person, for gods sake that woulld be the only time I'd even drink soda. Her top priority was the men, mine was the pool table.  |
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