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  Author:  62220  Category:(Discussion) Created:(12/30/2004 9:08:00 AM)
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A few of you might remember a post I wrote awhile back about this guy telling me he loved me and he'll wait for me, and then this grl coming into the picture and him going with her and stuff...and then I posted an update how he blamed me?

New information (you're gonna think I'm pathetic, and I am :D)--Well I did as you asked and, as I believe one commenter wrote, "forgot that chump altogether". Welllllll, guess what? BASICALLY, about 8-10 months go by and he's back IMing me. I'm totally ready to block him at the slightest provocation, but he says he's sorry. He said he was really immature and etc etc etc...so after awhile I said FINE, OKAY, but I said we could never be together again cuz I love someone else (which is true) but we can be friends. But he still manages to slide in stuff about our future together (I know, you're thinking, how old is this grl? 16?! HER FUTURE?! ...but my religion and stuff JUST GO WITH IT OKAY!) and I think I'm falling for him again. Yes I know I said I was in love. I am. But I am a grl who has not had a lot of guys sincerely like her so I'm trying to take what I can get.

Anyways, just...like...comment about what you think I should do: fall for him or think about it or forget him.



--I know how much you guys LOOOOVE to be in on my love life, and I'm here to satisfy your whims *laughs* just kidding--

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Date: 12/30/2004 9:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 60395    all i can say is just don't take anything too fast, and you'll be ok. you can have a relationship with him but just dont run out and elope or something lol  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 11341    But I am a grl who has not had a lot of guys sincerely like her so I'm trying to take what I can get. WRONG ATTITUDE!!!!! Dont ever settle, EVER! Thats the problem right there.
  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:29:00 AM  From Authorid: 3263    I TOTALLY agree with DMK!! Also, what's to stop him from ditching you again? Kick him to the curb!!!!  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 61013    I agree with the others *hugz* good luck Love Always, Keri  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:44:00 AM  From Authorid: 35720    Trying to take what you can get? Not a good idea.. someone else out there will treat you right.. you're only 16.. give it time.  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 49707    yea i totally agree with the others cuz he might leave you again or do something really mean...i've had no luck with guys in the past so i may not be the best person for advice but just wait and in time you will find a guy who is worth your while and who will treat you right. theres someone out there for all of us... good luck and much love to ya GlitterBug  
Date: 12/30/2004 9:58:00 AM  From Authorid: 25856    Hmm...this may be hard, but once a liar, always a liar. I would block him and save yourself some heartbreak. Good luck!  
Date: 12/30/2004 10:50:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62220    ahaha thanks for your comments and advice...yes yes I know it appears like the wrong attitude but really, you don't understand...  
Date: 12/30/2004 11:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 11341    Are you settling? Taking anyone who will take you? Yes, sweets I DO understand.  
Date: 12/30/2004 12:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 46527    Forget him...find someone who is WORTH your time and affection.  
Date: 12/30/2004 1:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 63011    Does this other person you love love you back? If he does, then you'd be doing the same thing to him as your ex did to you. Dont go back to him just because he apologized. It doesnt necessarily mean he'll treat you better. And if he's your age, trust me, he's still really immature. -GreenClover  
Date: 12/30/2004 1:58:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62220    LOL okie you people thanks   
Date: 12/30/2004 5:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 55533    He only wants...well you know what guys want, that's why he's back because his other girlfriend left. He is insecure I think. Play along with him lol.  
Date: 12/30/2004 5:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 55533    But whatever you do, don't fall for him.  
Date: 12/30/2004 6:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 30786    From a lot of the comments that you have made here, I think it would be very unwise for you to continue to entertain your feelings for this guy. He is obviously a smooth talker who is wheedling his way into your life, and why are you letting him when it is so obvious he is bad news? He is telling you everything you want to hear and you want to believe it so badly that you do because you like the attention (understandably) I dated a guy who sounds just like him. We dated and then broke up because of his immaturity, then months later he showed up, apologizing, always talking about how he made a big mistake and he was finally ready to settle down with a nice girl, etc. and it was all just another tactic to use me. I should have gone with my first instinct, and so should you. Use your head and not your heart, or you will pay for it later. Get out now before you get too attached.  
Date: 12/30/2004 7:31:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62220    Hmmm Breezy you make sense...yes I do like the attention LOL...but truth be told he doesn't give it THAT often; other people I know give me way more. Sometimes he is kinda cold and other times he is very sweet...you guys should've heard about me and his brother, I think you all would've k1lled him but that's another story. Anyways, I don't know what my head is telling me. I don't know why my heart is either...my hormones are pretty loud and clear *chuckles*. Yes all guys do want...that...but how are you supposed to tell which DON'T..at least, that's not all they want from you. [[sigh]] I think I'm going to stick it out just for awhile more and then see what happens or if I'm getting more comfortable or more UNcomfortable. He's frustrated cuz we can never see each other (strict parents over here) and I can understand that. I guess in a way HE'S trying not to get too attached to me also. argh i just don't know LOL...i guess, like I said, I'm gonna stick it out if things don't improve I'll just be his friend and nothing more. What do you ppl think?  
Date: 12/30/2004 7:32:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62220    Oh I have another question...if there are guys here I apologize..but it seems all you commenters are grls. What do guys think?  

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